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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: It fells like someone kicked me in my balls...... | ||||
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| GrkqtOandAfan Claim staked by FTL. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 5:19 PM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00  | Do not take her back...once a cheater always a cheater. Her being drunk shouldnt be an excuse, thats like her getting drunk and killing someone and saying...well i was drunk i didnt know what i was doing...thats bs...Drunken I am so sorry you had to go through what you did this weekend, beating the crap out of the guys wouldnt have made a difference, your gf was more at fault. You deserve better then her!!!  What are we gonna do about this? "OA.com Where the men become boys and the women are play toys" | ||||
| Nigel Tufnel | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 5:57 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Oct. 00 | Oh please!! It sucks but everyone is making it out to be a much bigger deal than it is. It is not like the kids mom died from cancer...he walked in on his girlfriend...Yeah it sucks but it isn't a catastrophic as everyone has made it out to be. Get over her and it, and move on w/ your life. "What's wrong with being sexy?" | ||||
| menudointhemorning | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 6:10 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jan. 01 | I hate felling that I was kicked in the balls. Dude I fell for ya but, Dude you're 18. Dont worry there is a bunch of other chicks out there. Dont even think about it for 2....two minutes. Its over.............Next. bring on the next girl. If you F my Mom, I'll F yours | ||||
| GrkqtOandAfan Claim staked by FTL. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 6:24 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | hey menudo...he was 18, now he is 27...read the entire thread What are we gonna do about this? "OA.com Where the men become boys and the women are play toys" | ||||
| Opie696 G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. Soldier of Fortune Spec Ops Division | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 6:44 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Feb. 01 | Hey Gw, i feel for ya man. Shes lying if she said she did nothin. You said u saw her but naked and on her back. Dude, u know she was doin somthin, i would beat the shit outta both of these fuckwad firefighters. then i woulda yelled and screamed at her until she was so upset that she woulda gotten on her hands and knees beggin me for forgiveness. im a mean fuck i,know but im still bitter about gettin dumped a few weeks ago.   | ||||
| menudointhemorning | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 7:25 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jan. 01 | Grkqt, To be honest with ya, the thread was way too long for me to read in it entirety. Im way to lazy. So in this case Dude your screwed. But things always seem to work themselves out, Hang in there. If you F my Mom, I'll F yours | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 9:25 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | I appreciate the feedback from almost everyone. By the way Nigel, Go fuck yourself! I guess you never trusted anyone enough to put yourself out there with another person. By the way my mom does have cancer and she only has 7 weeks of chemo left. So FUCK OFF AND DIE!!!!!  Friend of Pedro Guerrero. Adopted by Calm Your Nut. | ||||
| Banana_juice | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 10:39 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | hey dgw, just wondering if you two talked or anything last night. proud graduate of Newbie University. Honor Student of Lord Magus's class. E-Mail Me | ||||
| DreamWeaver | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 10:48 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | quote: Ok, obviously you have never had your heart ripped out before. No its not death but it can sure as shit feel that way sometimes.. GW..I honestly think that if you stay with this girl, you will never trust her again. I guarentee you, you won't. I had a similar situation and wasted 3 years of my life being miserable and always questioning. It makes for a shitty relationship that you don't need. You deserve better than that.  | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 10:54 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | B J..... I had to go to her parents house yesterday. Her father is doing my taxes. She wasn't there, I fealt weird there. Her father loves me, her mom is okay with me. Her father thinks we had an argument, her mom knows the story. I recv'd an email from her today because she was supposed to help run a suprise party for my best friend. She got the invite in the mail yesterday, and it was addressed to both of us. She said "Yes I know this no longer is an invite for me." Effed up shit man. I replied to her by saying that I have to take time off, and wait til my head clears. I'm still not thinking right. Worst of all is I can't sleep. I tried going to sleep around 10 last night and I was looking at the ceiling for 2 straight hours. All I could think about was her. Sorry for sounding like a Faaaaeeegggg! Friend of Pedro Guerrero. | ||||
| That Guy | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 11:05 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Dec. 00 | DGW You will never get the image of her and that dude out your head. Every time you look at her you will see it in your minds eye. Be strong and get out. Spring is a time for growth and change. Take the oppertunity now while you are good and pissed off and move on. Trust is essential in a relationship. DGW if you have not seen Hi-Fedlity go rent it today. There is some stuff in there the will help you through this. "Cry havoc...and let slip the dogs of war!" This message was edited by That Guy on 3-13-01 @ 11:21 AM | ||||
| Banana_juice | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 11:13 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | you made the 100% right choice in telling her about taking the time off. very good plan.. and yeah, that must have been strange going to her parents house last night. proud graduate of Newbie University. Honor Student of Lord Magus's class. E-Mail Me | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 11:20 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | The thing is I have to go back and see her father again. Needed to get him some info on my stock buying - christ did I take a beating - But anyways I've been told it could've been much worse. Married or with kids. Dreamweaver....that's the effed up thing. When I think of her, I think of that night. It kills. I consider my self a rough type guy, man's man type of deal....but this shit turns me into silly puddy. I think I'm afarid because I've been with her so long. I guess I'm not one for change. Friend of Pedro Guerrero. | ||||
| Sloatsburgh | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 11:25 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | DGW, I have a thought and I think it's brutally honest, almost mean. You had been going out with this girl for 7 years. That sounds to me like you didn't like her enough to marry her (or found enough wrong with her that you didn't want to marry her) and that you liked her more than being alone..... By any chance were you holding on to her until you found something better to trade up for, or was there more to the story than that.... If it was an off/on again relationship, well that says you found enough to break up with her, but that hope triumphed over experience over and over again.... My personal opinion is that you should walk away (as painful as it is). You'll never get the image of the other guy out of your head, you'll never trust her again, and worse, she will not trust you because she will always be expecting the "revenge screw". P.S. glad to see I wasn't the only on screwed up by thinking "known since 10 + going out for 7 = 18 years old!" Bon Courage, mon amie  "I use you for good board I'm not your friend" Guided by Dryblood. | ||||
| DreamWeaver | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 11:35 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | Answer me this GW..Do you really see yourself being happy with her and forgetting this every happened?? Of course it hurts at first but just think, you'll save yourself alot of grief and aggravasion if it ends here. Things will never be the same between you two..... But ya know what..Bottom line is that you're not gonna listen to any of us here..you are gonna do what you want, which will probably be to stay with her..But remember....you won't have anyone's sympathy if she screws you again. I know that I always do what I want no matter if its the right thing to do or not...So good luck to you | ||||
| MaynardGKrebs | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 12:12 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | OK, I wasnt going to respond to this again, but after reading every post, I had to. GW, I am going through like I said, an almost identical situation, except I'm married to the person. Every post in here is telling you to dump her, but I am not going to do that. I have known my wife for 5 years and only been married for 2, but I tell you, it hurts the same as 10 years. More because we're married I think. Anyways, I am going to give it another try. The hardest thing is going to be the trust, but I know that I really love her and I just have to give it at least another try. As someone said before, our marriage was on the rocks when it happened. Not that that makes it ok, but its not like she did it when everything was going great. I think that that does say something. If you want to talk to someone going through this, you can e-mail me - jshoejr@aol.com or AIM - greyinside. Good Luck By the way, it happened in August and I still can't sleep well at night.  | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 12:16 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | quote: Great, I guess I have a lot to look forward to. I know the biggest thing to overcome will be the trust part. If I can't ever trust her again, then I know we cannot continue the relationship. Dreamweaver, I wasn't looking for sympathy. I was looking for feedback and life experiances. I do appreciate your insight. Sloats.... I wasn't looking for a trade up. I actually saw myself marrying her. I wanted to be able to provide a comfortable life for the both of us. I can do that now but not 3 years ago. Krebs...I hope you can work things out. Seems like we may be in similar boats. I was going to marry her. Thanx for the knowledge, I know I can't just walk away. Friend of Pedro Guerrero. | ||||
| mother shucker | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 12:33 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Nov. 00 | When you put yourself out there............Guy, that sucks. you did the right thing by not throwing the first punch, but I would have egged them on untill one of the drunks took a swing. Ever fight a drunk while you are sober. It's great. Second, if you ever take this hose bag back you are a pussy whipped fag. Geez, you can find a hundred different broads. If you where married it would be thing, but you where only going out? Give me a break. Third, I am going to kick your ass in fantasy baseball, that should make you feel better. My team is the Long Island Rusty Trombones. Chin up dude, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Unfortunetly, they all smell like fish in the sea. | ||||
| Sloatsburgh | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 1:43 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Just fishing.... I understand what you are saying. I am just trying to offer any advice that I can, especially since I really effed up in my first post. "I use you for good board I'm not your friend" Guided by Dryblood. | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 1:45 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Mother shucker...I know what your saying about fighting drunks when your sober. I used to bounce at a few gogo bars. Slouts....alls cool. I'm asking for a feedback. It's impossible for everyone to have the same thoughts and feelings. Thanx. Friend of Pedro Guerrero. | ||||
| FukMeBoobs | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 2:35 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Feb. 01 | DGW I'm so sorry that this happened to you. That has got to be one of the worst experiences one can face, especially witnessing it with your own eyes. Kinda makes you feel like what did you do wrong, even if she was shit-faced. That is still no excuse for what she did. I don't care how drunk she was, she still had enough knowledge of what was going on to get naked. I'm sure she was embarrased because you walked in on her, so her first reaction is to say nothing happened. I think the best thing is to let the dust settle for about a week or two, then sit down and have a REAL conversation because COMMUNICATION is the key! After you guys talk and you still get funny feelings about it then go with your gut instinct and get rid of her because in the long run you seem like the type of guy that can do better. Hope all works out for you and I'm sorry a fellow female did this to you. Makes the rest of us look really bad. Good luck! | ||||
| Nigel Tufnel | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 2:49 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Oct. 00 | Drunken, yeah it has happened to me but you gotta get over it. Fuck me no fuck you. Did you post when you mom got ill? that is a lot more serious than your girlfriend. W/ your mom you have my deepest sympathy. I hope she beats it and does well. My mom died from cancer...and my girlfriend started dating my room mate. The latter is no big deal. It happens all the time. you gotta get over it!!! i feel for you about your mom....that really SUCKS!!!!!!! In fact my girlfriend at the time went through my mother's death w/ me..and actually was there on her death bed. She said to my mom after she died "don't worry I'll take care of him". A year later she was going out w/ my roomate. But, she was a whore and you gotta leave it at that!!! "What's wrong with being sexy?" This message was edited by Nigel Tufnel on 3-13-01 @ 2:56 PM | ||||
| Son of Psycho Mark | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 2:52 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Nov. 00 | I was going to rip into DGW for pouring his heart out like that and tell him to get over it and that he's crying over something that happens to everybody and ask him what the fuck he wanted me to do about it, but...I read it again and put myself in his place. After seven years together, something like that tears your soul out. I feel for you dude. Good luck. I'm a triple-rectified asshole/son of a bitch. | ||||
| Inappropriate Belle | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 2:59 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Feb. 01 | Do NOT take this girl back, at least not right away. If you just forgive her immediately she will only learn that if she cheats on you you'll take her back anyway. I say cut off all contact with her for at least a week to let her think hard about what she did to you and learn what life is like without you. She'll be begging your forgiveness in no time, and if she isn't then she isn't worth your time. Your girl fucked up big time. If you still love her and want to forgive her after some time has passed, I think couples therapy is in order. I've had my heart ripped out too and it is very much like grieving death but in a way it's worse because there is nothing you can do about death... it's final. When a relationship ends the person is still there but just not with you. Hope things get better. Good luck. | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-13-2001 @ 3:02 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Okay Nigel....we agree on some things and not others. I 'll take the feedback though. Sorry to hear of your situation. Life can tend to suck sometimes. Son of PM, I'm glad you didn't say thoise things. We didn't want to get on each others bad side. IB...Something about you're sig makes me feel a little better. She will wait atleast a week, most likely 2.  Friend of Pedro Guerrero. This message was edited by Drunken GW on 3-13-01 @ 3:21 PM | ||||
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