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| MaynardGKrebs | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 10:07 AM |    | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01  | Are there any other divorcee's out there? My wife/ex/whateverthehellyouwanttocallher are signing the papers on Thursday. We have only been married two years, but it's not gonna work. Believe me we tried, so don't say that we're coping out. We have no children, and have already split up all of our stuff. We've been living apart since August. We only have credit card bills to divi up. My question is this, who out there is divorced, and what is your current relationship with your ex? We are good friends, and want to keep it that way, but is that possible? Please give me some insight as to what I may expect. Or is it just over, are we gonna hate each other now?  | ||||
| Ronreddog | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 10:46 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Maynard, I have been divorced before. I am in my second marriage now, and it's great! My wife and I have been together 11 years, but married only 3 (4 this October). As far as my divorce goes, where the F do I begin? It took almost 2 years for me to get divorced! I had to file. My ex was an Italian C! As far as my relationship with her today, there is none! I do not speak to her, care for her, hope I never ever hear from her. I moved away from her because I was being stalked after our separation. I can go on and on here, but, I will not air it out here! I wish you the best of luck! Divorce is not pleasant most of the time, in my case, it was down right ugly! E-Mail Me  Sig pic courtesy of the dear departed CBH, may he rest in pieces! I have adopted squidink for the next 10 days WOW is here, please WOW this bully today! | ||||
| Sloatsburgh | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 11:16 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Remarriage..... The Triumph of Hope over Experience. Been married only one year. I wish I was dead.  "I use you for good board I'm not your friend" Guided by Dryblood. | ||||
| King f-tard | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 12:54 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Feb. 01 | Great, lots to look forward to, I just got engaged in Feb. I can only imagine how it is. | ||||
| Rog2K | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 1:06 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | I'm engaged to a girl I've known for five years, dated for two & a half & lived with for 1 & a half. The bomb officially drops this September. Every day I wonder if I'm doing the right thing since more couples get divorced than stay together, but I gotta go with my gut feeling. It's gotten me this far in life...  If you try to fail, and succeed, which have you done? -George Carlin | ||||
| scmods Break into my dad's pc and go to the porno directory. It takes a lot to freak me out, and his archive can do it. Time & Time Again. | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 1:09 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Feb. 01 | I was only engaged- We got engaged in Nov00 and it ended mutually in Mar01. We have been on perfect speaking terms since, except when I called last night, the twat changed/disconnected her phone #! I expected the ability to at least speak with each other, but I was wrong. Quite surprised, too. Sorry to hear about your situation. Good luck! SigPic in testing phase | ||||
| hornygoatweed23 I've Got A Vagina With Teeth. G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. Dragoon Battalion My friends call me Weed | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 1:25 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | engaged here as well - D-Day being July 14th (this year). We've been together 6 years, never lived together though, so that should prove interesting. We get along fine, and I don't think we'll end up on Divorce Court, but I won't rule out the possibility (I'm too much of a realist for that). Much like Rog2K, I've gotta go with my feeling - every time I don't, I end up saying I should have. "Do me and you'll succeed :)" | ||||
| MaynardGKrebs | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 2:13 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: That was heartburn Rog. Hey, good luck to you guys. Marriage was ok, we just didn't work for each other. We should've had a longer engagement. We got married way too quickly.  | ||||
| Banana_juice | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 2:39 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: Hey Rog, Now that I know you are getting married one month after ozzfest, I am getting you all sorts of messed up at the concert. haha. consider it your message board bachelor party from me. proud graduate of Newbie University. Honor Student of Lord Magus's class. E-Mail Me | ||||
| Brokenjaw Always will bow down to the power of the Faceman!!!! | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 2:46 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00 | quote:Wow I just can't wait to get married now.;-) I am sure if you find the right person its all good. Never been married hope to some day though.  | ||||
| weinie | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 2:48 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Oct. 00 | hey schmods, are you a convicted stalker by any chance? | ||||
| Ronreddog | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 3:19 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: How's this? My first marriage was fresh out of high school. I graduated in June 1982, got married December 1982. I basically got married because she was pregnant, and I wanted to do the right thing. We were married on and off (separated for 14 months in 1986-87), until April 1991. We separated again, and I filed for divorce. My divorce was not final until March 1993. I never wish what happened to me on anybody! E-Mail Me Sig pic courtesy of the dear departed CBH, may he rest in pieces! I have adopted squidink for the next 10 days WOW is here, please WOW this bully today! | ||||
| GrkqtOandAfan Claim staked by FTL. | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 5:05 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | It took my parents 6 years to get divorced...what an f-ing pain the ass the whole ordeal was. They basically have to be civil and pretend to get along for my little brother's sake. The relationship could be alot worse but they really try to make it easier on my little bro so he wont need too much therapy when he gets older. I however am sick of being the messenger for the past 9 years between them. Trust me if you are in a shitty marriage and you know its not going to work dont have kids thinking that will be the solution it will just make it worse. "What are we going to do about this? "OA.com Where the men become boys and the women are play toys" Looking for some cuties to adopt inquire within | ||||
| The Painter 1/2 a bottle of Jack Daniels... it's a cure-all | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 10:17 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | I have a great relationship with my ex. I haven't seen her in 16 years. That's perfect | ||||
| GrkqtOandAfan Claim staked by FTL. | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 10:24 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Painter i swear you have the best one liners...lmao "What are we going to do about this? "OA.com Where the men become boys and the women are play toys" Looking for some cuties to adopt inquire within | ||||
| Little Wing | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 10:45 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Feb. 01 | Maynard, I think it is possible for you two to stay friends, especially if you were good friends BEFORE you were married. Both of you will eventually move on to other relationships, though, and that's where it might get sticky. Your new partners aren't going to like their significant others speaking to their exes, especially when there are no children involved. Don't be surprised if, in a few years, the two of you rarely speak, if at all. I had a 6 year relationship with someone and we kept in touch at least every few months for about 7 years after we broke up. I got engaged in 1997, he got engaged in 1998 and hadn't spoken to each other for 3 years until he called me last week. Out of the blue - to tell me that he and his wife had a baby. So, yes it's possible if the split is amicable. Depends on how you actually feel about each other. If you think that maybe you should have stayed "just friends" to begin with, I think you will stay friendly with each other now. But if there was a lot of pain and spitefulness, it might be better for you to just move on. Hope everything turns out well for you. | ||||
| o&aswallow | posted on 04-20-2001 @ 10:49 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Krebs, God bless you. Been married 21 years, we can't stand each other, but we are civil. I'm not giving her half of anything. She's not comfortable to be on her own. Good thing you ended it early. For all of you expecting to find the perfect mate (yeah right) you never know, you may be the first. o&aswallow Recognized His Destiny Early. Too Many Hotties, Not Enough Horny Goat Weed It at first you don't succeed, keep on sucking till you do suck seed. - Curly Howard. | ||||
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