After sex contact.

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and now after having sex like 30 something times with my girlfriend

you've had sex 30 times in a month?

Damn man, you're good.

But I know what you mean, I wasn't dissapointed my 1st time but it wasn't what I expected it to be. It was good, it was sex which is almost always good or atleast somewhat pleasurable. But it doesn't change your life much, it does help you sleep though.