Should you judge your mate on their sexual history

[Mad]

thats the problem, im getting serious and the dirt is already out. which is the reason for this thread.

Well if it's out there you might have to do some spin control to handle it.

If the feelings are mutual and strong enough she should be able to over look youthful indiscretions, hopefully.

You will have to deal with jealous twits who might want to fuck things up for you. It's part of human nature.