Cleaning - The male perspective

[McBourbon]

It's not like we live in filth.....but her concept of clean is different than mine and I want to know where the boundaries lie. I can handle a little clutter, but the way she leaves the kitchen counters in unacceptable. I at least will put dishes in the sink....she leaves them on the counter top for me to rinse and then put into the dishwasher. Like dropping them in the sink, that one extra step, will break her. It's a weird thing.......I have no clue.