Looking for software to monitor computer activity

[Keyser Soze]

this is not the way to parent a child, you should not have them under suveilance. even if you prevent them from a bad situation you will lose their trust forever and they will resent you for it and act it out and damage themselves much more serverely than this ever could.

i would have a converstation with the kid to tell him to use common sense and try to teach him that common sense so he could make his own decisions rather than make them all for him.