01-24-2002, 07:37 PM
Im not sure I was "obsessed" with this girl, but it was damn near close. We met while we were both Sophmore's in HS, dated for 3 years. I do know that I loved her very much, and that the feeling was mutual, and we both made a shitload of life-changing decisions because of it (for example, I decided to go to school in NYC instead of taking the scholarship I was offered upstate because I wanted to stay close to her, and she did the same). Toward the end however, alot of things changed. I dont know if it was complatency, or fear of a higher committment (because honestly, this was the only girl I could see myself marrying), but we both decided it was time to end it. I've had regrets, but I doubt I would do anything different if given another chance.