comfortability - around bf's and gf's

[Rape Fantasizer]

At what point in your relationship are you so comfortable it doesn't matter what the other person does? I feel like there's a point where he or she is going to have to deal with seeing you at bad times. I dated a guy who got seriously mad if I didn't shave my legs one day. (does he know what a pain in the ass it is?) hell, he would even get mad if I burped or farted in front of him, saying it wasn't ladylike. Well, damnit, you have to realize that it happens, so i think that it meant he wasn't comfortable around me. So at what point does all the showing off end? I mean, I dated him for 2 years!