When you are single - What do you do to pass the time?

[Kid A]

Yeah, that's another thing... How come guys seem to think that if you lay a girl once, and she wants to do it again, she must want to hold you down and trap you. Why can't she just think you'd make a good bed pair? How do you tell someone that?

Girls often put a different value on sex than men do. For me, if a chick is comfortable with herself, and makes me comfortable as well, things usually go pretty well. If it's awkward, I don't have the patience.

When sex is good, it's generally a sign of comfort between two people. That being said, I think just telling someone, "I like fucking you, but don't want to take it much beyond that" should be appropriate. I mean sure, they may take it harshly, but you have to be honest when it comes to people you're banging.