03-15-2002, 01:02 AM
I was married to someone who could not be faithful to me. He never admitted to it, and I was grateful for that. In some twisted way, I felt that it meant he really cared about my feelings. If you admit to cheating, its just a way to unburden yourself of the guilt, and you end up making the other person carry around with the doubt. It is very possible to have a meaningless sexual relationship, and meaningful relationships are not contigent upon monogamy. Sometimes, respecting your partner's feelings is much more valuable than being faithful to her.
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...like that cut on the roof of your mouth
that would go away if you'd stop tonguing it,
but you can't.</center>
...like that cut on the roof of your mouth
that would go away if you'd stop tonguing it,
but you can't.</center>