03-15-2002, 05:59 PM
ive cheated..
i was with this boy for about 6 months, we lived together and had this very serious relationship. we faught alot and just couldnt get it together in bed. but because (and this is going to sound sooo selfish) i didnt have anywhere else to go i stayed with him. and honestly i loved him, we just werent right for eachother...
i cheated on him 4 times and ended up telling him with the intent of trying to work things out, inevidably he kicked me out a few days later.. i took it in stride knowing what i did was wrong...
i have cheated one other time since then... and just broke up with him.. when i have the urge to cheat, its now a sign to me that im in a dead end relationship and my needs are not being met. and i know now its better to just move on, then to cheat and struggle.
i was with this boy for about 6 months, we lived together and had this very serious relationship. we faught alot and just couldnt get it together in bed. but because (and this is going to sound sooo selfish) i didnt have anywhere else to go i stayed with him. and honestly i loved him, we just werent right for eachother...
i cheated on him 4 times and ended up telling him with the intent of trying to work things out, inevidably he kicked me out a few days later.. i took it in stride knowing what i did was wrong...
i have cheated one other time since then... and just broke up with him.. when i have the urge to cheat, its now a sign to me that im in a dead end relationship and my needs are not being met. and i know now its better to just move on, then to cheat and struggle.
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