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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: FU to my X who now say we are comon law married and needs a Divorce | ||||
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| JackDan1974 | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:26 PM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jul. 01  | I would like to say to my X girl that I hope you new boyfriend Fuck you in the ass till it bleeds. I hate you fuckin cunt, for puttin me through three years of hell, and now that we have broken up for that last time. What does this pycho bitch from hell do she's trying to get a divorce from me simply becasue she was fantized with the fact that we were going to get married. So the stupid bitch uses my last name to get her insurance policy(cheaper if your married), and when she bought her car she used my last name. Now the only way she can change these documents is to show these people the final divorce papers. back to hell slut... This message was edited by JackDan1974 on 8-31-01 @ 4:37 PM | ||||
| Arthur Dent | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:30 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00 | Find a lawyer and drink your JD STRAIGHT tonight. "When I was born I was so surprised I couldn't talk for a year and a half." - Gracie Allen A much wittier reply came to mind immediately after I clicked the 'Send' button. I have GRADUATED VooDude. Room for two adoptees. | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:34 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Ick..what a bitch! If you were only together for three years, you are NOT considered common law husband and wife. As far as I know, you need to live together for approx. seven years or so. If she was using your last name on her insurance (and you didn't also own this policy) report her for insurance fraud. I also suggest you run, not walk to a reputable lawyer's office. Good luck with everything. Oh and by the way...drink up sounds like you need it. :) why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? This message was edited by FeelMyFunBags on 8-31-01 @ 4:38 PM | ||||
| Kid Afrika | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:35 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | Yeah, FU Buttmunch.
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| JackDan1974 | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:38 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jul. 01 | FMFB I kind of did some research on the subject, and there are certin criteria that has to meet in the state of Texas which is where I live, and she has me by the balls. Plus as luck would have it her father is a fuckin lawyer, and is the one pushing for her to do this. Plus I think in her sick demented mine this a way to Fuck me one last time,,Some of the example of the criteria are 1. Living toghther for more than two months 2. Presenting your self in public as man, and wife. (an insurance polcy can be considered doing this, or her car title 3. Planning to be wed, 4. and more This message was edited by JackDan1974 on 8-31-01 @ 4:52 PM | ||||
| Sluggo667 SLASH's New Buddy, but shhh... I am not allowed to tell anyone. | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:41 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Apr. 01 | If she used your last name as hers, and, there is no marriage certificate... Wouldn't that be giving false information to obtain credit? Is there such thing as "Common Law" Marriage in Texas? If so were you living together long enough for it to apply to you? Oh...Yeah...Like Arthur said...Get a lawyer.  Sluggo667...Neighbor of the beast... UH...I forgot what I wanted to say... AIM-Slugggo667 | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:55 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Jack...thats shitty...the laws are much different in New York. What you might want to do besides get yourself a lawyer is do some research on your own to see if there is a precedent (sp) set in the courts regarding matters such as this one, If a man brought to court regarding this issue won in the past, you can use that case to your advantage. Also look to see how old the laws are...they could be very old and considered out dated..such as laws in certain states regarding sexual acts which are on the books but never inforced. Good luck with everything...and if you need to talk...even though I don't know you, feel free to IM me, my screen name is in my profile. why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| Sluggo667 SLASH's New Buddy, but shhh... I am not allowed to tell anyone. | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 5:05 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Apr. 01 | quote:2 MONTHS?!! Ponderous...F-in Ponderous... If and when you get this shit over with... Consider MOVING! N.J. Does NOT recognize "Common Law" marriage. Sluggo667...Neighbor of the beast... UH...I forgot what I wanted to say... AIM-Slugggo667 | ||||
| Psycho Bitch
| posted on 08-31-2001 @ 5:49 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jul. 01 | quote: Hey, I didn't do it!! I swear it wasn't me!! Seriosly though, why does she insist on torturing you even though she has a new man? That's fucked up. Don't let her get to you man, she'll get hers in the end. Karma is a bigger bitch than any woman could ever hope to be. Go out this weekend, get blasted and then Tuesday get yourself a lawyer and screw her greedy ass to the wall. take it one day at a time and try not to sweat it. Good luck!  thanks for the find wpp :) "I am insane and you are my insanity" "You fuck me, then snub me. You love me, you hate me. You show me your sensitive side, then you turn into a total asshole! Is that a pretty accurate description of our relationship, Tyler?" | ||||
| Tequila Fez claims this land in the name of Portugal! Why worry about the train if it never makes it around the tracks?? IrishAlkey wuz here!!! | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 6:18 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | here is some info on a common law marrage Consideration may be given to common law (mutual consent) marriage only if it existed in a State which recognizes such a marriage. Proof of a common law marriage may consist of: 1. Affidavits from at least two persons who know the facts concerning the common law relationship. The persons making the affidavits should state: The length of time you lived together; The address or addresses at which you resided while you lived together; Whether there was any public announcement in connection with your common law marriage; and Whether you were regarded among your neighbors, friends, and relatives as being husband and wife during the time you lived together. 2. In addition to the affidavits mentioned above, your own affidavit is required. In your affidavit you should state: The date when and the State in which you mutually agreed to become husband and wife; Whether you were ever married, ceremonially or under common law, to anyone else before entering into the common law relationship. If so, state in your affidavit, all the facts of each previous marriage, including the date it took place and the date of the death or divorce which ended it. Any other facts which you believe will help prove you are husband and wife. 3. Also, if you have any of the following documents which will show a husband and wife relationships, send them in together with the affidavits required in 1 and 2 above: Excerpts from a naturalization certificate, deeds, immigration record, insurance policies, passports, child's birth certificate, original business, employment, fraternal, school, labor organization, church, or other records, bank books made out in the joint names of husband and wife. (AFFIDAVITS MUST BE SWORN TO OR AFFIRMED BEFORE A NOTARY PUBLIC OR OTHER OFFICER WHO IS AUTHORIZED BY LAW TO ADMINISTER OATHS.) WARNING Affidavits and other evidence are subject to verification by personal investigation. Any intentional false statement, willful concealment of a material fact, or use of a writing or document knowing the same to contain a false, fictitious, or fraudulent statement or entry, is a violation of the law punishable by a fine of not more than $10,000 or imprisonment of not more than 5 years, or both. (18 U.S.C. 1001)  AOL/AIM - oanda1027fm | ||||
| Tequila Fez claims this land in the name of Portugal! Why worry about the train if it never makes it around the tracks?? IrishAlkey wuz here!!! | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 6:19 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | edit - sorry I pulled an AM This message was edited by Tequila on 8-31-01 @ 6:20 PM | ||||
| adolescentmasturbator | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 11:20 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Tequila I think it's time to reveal my devious plan. I slowed down my posting as to have people overtake me in post count. Now as you have passed me you are a bigger post whore than me. Not only are you a post whore but a hypocrite post whore..tog. EDIT-Nice try to get me to post again. In a few months you will overtake me and then I will be able to call you the post whore muhahaha.  Resident Board Socialist Email me here IM me at stickysituation2 or pinkorag Webmaster of the Undergound Unofficial I Hate WhackBagKid Message Board I currently have brought no one into the International This message was edited by adolescentmasturbator on 8-31-01 @ 11:42 PM | ||||
| fbdlingfrg wow, my name looks odd without 5 lines of type below it in bold and purple and red G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. Red Wings Captain Cecil JBA~Remove the Pick & Click NOW! | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 11:23 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | wow am...he's got a whole 6 posts on you.you'll overtake him by the time i go to sleep if you post like you usually do i may be a little catholic boy, but i'm still HLJC 4 LIFE! | ||||
| i jack off alot | posted on 09-03-2001 @ 2:26 AM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Sep. 01 | Family Law Common-law Marriage Although a license and ceremony generally are required, some states still recognize what is known as a "common-law" marriage. In this type of "marriage," which was more common in f rontier times, a man and woman who have lived together for a certain period of time and who hold themselves to be husband and wife are considered to be married even without a license and a formal ceremony. Because a common-law marriage is not formally recorded, the couple, if challenged, may have to prove the existence of their marriage contract. They may have to prove that they live together as man and wife and present themselves to the public as a married couple. Where recognized, a common-law marriage is as valid as a typical marriage. Eleven states and the District of Columbia currently recognize common-law marriages. Each of these jurisdictions has unique requirements for common-law marriage. Alabama: The requirements for a common-law marriage are: (1) capacity; (2) an agreement to be husband and wife; and (3) consummation of the marital relationship. Colorado: A common-law marriage may be established by proving cohabitation and a reputation of being married. District of Columbia: The requirements for a common-law marriage are: (1) an express, present intent to be married and (2) cohabitation. Iowa: The requirements for a common-law marriage are: (1) intent and agreement to be married; (2) continuous cohabitation; and (3) public declarations that the parties are husband and wife. Kansas: For a man and woman to form a common-law marriage, they must: (1) have the mental capacity to marry; (2) agree to be married at the present time; and (3) represent to the public that they are married. Montana: The requirements for a common-law marriage are: (1) capacity to consent to the marriage; (2) an agreement to be married; (3) cohabitation; and (4) a reputation of being married. Oklahoma: To establish a common-law marriage, a man and woman must (1) be competent; (2) agree to enter into a marriage relationship; and (3) cohabit. Pennsylvania: A common-law marriage may be established if a man and woman exchange words that indicate that they intend to be married at the present time. Rhode Island: The requirements for a common-law marriage are: (1) serious intent to be married and (2) conduct that leads to a reasonable belief in the community that the man and woman are married. South Carolina: A common-law marriage is established if a man and woman intend for others to believe they are married. Texas: A man and woman who want to establish a common-law marriage must sign a form provided by the county clerk. In addition, they must (1) agree to be married, (2) cohabit, and (3) represent to others that they are married. Utah: For a common-law marriage, a man and woman must (1) be capable of giving consent and getting married; (2) cohabit; and (3) have a reputation of being husband and wife http://www.itslegal.com/infonet/family/common.html | ||||
| Sluggo667 SLASH's New Buddy, but shhh... I am not allowed to tell anyone. | posted on 09-03-2001 @ 4:04 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Apr. 01 | quote:That might help you, Man...good luck Sluggo667...Neighbor of the beast... UH...I forgot what I wanted to say... AIM-Slugggo667 | ||||
| The Painter 1/2 a bottle of Jack Daniels... it's a cure-all | posted on 09-03-2001 @ 7:17 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | Hey, you live in Texas. Why don't you just shoot her?j/k | ||||
King Shit *board owner* | posted on 09-03-2001 @ 11:47 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Feb. 01 | It all depends on where you live. Only about 10 - 15 states allow common law marriages, New Jersey does not happen to be one of them. Is my train in vain, has my soul gone to waste Am I just a victim of, a victim of my lost faith | ||||
| ~FallenAingL~ Unofficial Biggest Whore of OA.com G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. Reaver Strike Battalion Rage Brother #1, Paladin of Hatred Where's my snare? I have no snare in my headphones. | posted on 09-03-2001 @ 11:57 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jun. 01 | I know exactly what it feels like... you just want to hit that bitch with a spade shovel in the face... repeatedly. Hey!! Wait, put that down!! I was just kidding man! Shit, you are just as miserable as I thought you were. A month ago I went through a nasty break up from a big relationship. (I posted about it here in the FU's) The pain hurts... a lot, and it won't go a way for a while, in fact mine still hasn't left, but still, (No matter how corny this may sound) you have family and brotherhood here on OA.com. I'm sure there has been many other people besides me who feel the same. I'm going back to school today, but email me if you want to rant more about whatever comes to your mind. Take care, mon ami.  Thine In Honor, ~FallenAingL~ "But, for a certainty back then, we loved so many and yet hated so much, we hurt others and hurt ourselves. Yet, even then we ran like the wind, whilst our laughter echoed under cerulean skies..." -Schala 'Kid' Zeal | ||||
| MashedPotatohead NIGGA PLEASE! All the bitches in here are crazy! | posted on 09-03-2001 @ 6:43 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Howdy to our friend in TX - There aren't many of you folks here. I'm not a lawyer, but you seem to have a battle on your hands. I'm gonna play the devil's advocate, so you will know what you might need to look into. Did she legally change her last name? Did you know/accept the change? She might argue that since you didn't object - it would lend itself to her favor. Did you have any joint accounts/policies?  | ||||
| saucywitch | posted on 09-03-2001 @ 8:34 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Nov. 00 | Well, if texas law says you have to prove you were thinking about getting married, did you both decide on a date or get her a ring??? TINY shot at a loophole. I dunno. Good Luck, :) and Drink lots, Also, if she plans to divorce, you, I think it falls under mental cruelty against her pulling a stunt like this. Love and Kisses, Sophia | ||||
| JackDan1974 | posted on 09-04-2001 @ 12:04 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jul. 01 | First off I just wanted to thank everyone for there adivse, and concern. It really helped.. quote: quote: Yes at one time I did love her so much that we had talked about getting married, and had started to look into the matter. So we oped a joint checking account to start saving for a ring, and the wedding. So I know that I am basicly fucked. On a lighter side I might not be living in Texas much longer. I work for a computer company, and my company was just bought out in one of the biggest mergers in recent history.. | ||||
| Canweseeyourstuff | posted on 09-04-2001 @ 12:18 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | if all else fails run  http://photos.yahoo.com/canweseeyourstuff This message was edited by Canweseeyourstuff on 9-4-01 @ 12:22 PM | ||||
| JackDan1974 | posted on 09-04-2001 @ 2:42 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jul. 01 | Not a bad suggestion Canweeseeyourstuff | ||||
| prototype | posted on 09-04-2001 @ 2:52 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 01 | NOOOOOOOOO Don't tell me this I'm getting married Saturday.I think today's the day to think really hard about this.Oh sorry about your situation. Free Northern Ireland | ||||
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