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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: Manogomy or Man I gotta get me some pussy | ||||
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| Guv'nor | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 7:08 AM |    | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Dec. 00  | Four years, four whole years. Now I know there's a lot of people on this board that are married and have been with their partners for a long time. Question number one is: Q.Is there anybody on this board that is unfaithful either intentionally or otherwise. What I mean by that (intentionally or otherwise) is does anybody around here go out looking for it even if they have a girlfriend? I have been with my woman for four years, I've been sticking it in the same hole for all that time and been quite content, until this weekend. Now I'm not the type of bloke that girls throw themselves at, and when I say that I don't mean I've got a face like a bulldog sucking piss off a nettle I just mean I'm no Levi's ad man, so on Thursday I'm in the club and this fit-up biatch starts making some moves and before I know it a few more moves and ten shots later I'm giving the dog a bone. Now she means nothing to me I don't want to see her again. So my second question is: Q.Do you think it's possible to do this, just have sex with someone, without feelings? I don't mind telling you I'm feeling just about as guilty as I can right now, but I don't really know if I should be! Should I?  This message was edited by Guv'nor on 3-12-01 @ 7:32 AM | ||||
| Cap'n Fudge | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 8:30 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Guv, I not sure if the 10 shots defense will hold up for you... If it happened once, it'll happen again. I suggest you hide the truth for as long as you can from you girlfriend and then decide if you wish to stay with her long term. Ventriliquist Detective capnfudge@opieanthony.com | ||||
Nay. We are but men. ROCK. The man with the plan. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 8:39 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Sure, it's possible to have sex without feelings. Drunken club sex would probably be MOST likely to fall into that category. However, it's more difficult for a girl to have sex without feelings than it is for guys, in most cases. Take the girl in the club, for instance. She probably has no problem banging and feeling nothing. YOUR girl, however, probably isn't the type of girl who would do such a thing (if she was, you wouldn't be worried), therefore you know that if she ever gets wind of this, you're fucked harder than if Prince William met Britney Spears. Gotta agree with the Cap'n as well... really look at your relationship and where it's headed. She'll never be able to look past this one, so if she finds out, even if it meant nothing to you, it does to her. If you tell her and she's fine, then god damn you got off lucky, but I wouldn't become the male whore of Britain just cause of that.  | ||||
| Guv'nor | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 8:41 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Dec. 00 | The thing is, is that you're probably right, I suppose the right thing to do would be to break up with her but (and accepting that I sound like one of those trailer trash blokes on Springer) I love her, obviously not enough, but I do believe I love her, I guess I'm just being selfish :sad: This message was edited by Guv'nor on 3-12-01 @ 8:46 AM | ||||
| Canweseeyourstuff | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 8:42 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | honesty is the best policy but if you can lie your ass off thats the way to go deny deny deny  This message was edited by Canweseeyourstuff on 3-12-01 @ 8:45 AM | ||||
| Dryblood
| posted on 03-12-2001 @ 8:54 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | ur fucked man...u tasted he foriden fruits and now its time to punch (brake up w/ ur girl). its only right to her because u did it once and u'll do it again and next u might get caught so to play it safe just w  It's a message in blood It's your cryptic warning Within the message in blood Marks the years of pain, And your godforsaken ending to life - Pantera | ||||
| Cap'n Fudge | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 8:55 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: I never thought I'd live to see ANYONE agree with me!!! Ventriliquist Detective capnfudge@opieanthony.com | ||||
| Dryblood
| posted on 03-12-2001 @ 8:57 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | but fo r now just go into the "it wasnt me mode" : It's a message in blood It's your cryptic warning Within the message in blood Marks the years of pain, And your godforsaken ending to life - Pantera | ||||
| Shiloh | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 9:00 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Sep. 00 | I hope you used something- I'm sure your girlfriend deserves whatever you may have picked up. The shots were just your way of getting what you wanted. | ||||
| Guv'nor | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 9:06 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Dec. 00 | Yes I used something and I know the shots are no excuse, I suppose what I'm trying to find out is, is there any point in upsetting the apple cart if it's not going to happen again? But then am I just kidding myself if I think it's not going to happen again? Sad veiled bride please be happy Handsome groom give her room Loud loutish lover treat her kindly Though she needs you, more than she loves you I know it’s over, still I cling, I don’t know where else I can go It’s so easy to laugh it’s so easy to hate It takes guts to be gentle and kind | ||||
| Romeo Manson | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 9:11 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Sep. 00 | So you did it. Big deal. Now you're just like every other guy. Welcome to the club. Chalk it up to experience, and move on. Forget about it. Don't tell your girl friend. The only thing that will do is hurt her. Put the guilt aside, and forget it. If you want to break up with your girl, do it. If you don't want to break up with her, than just shut up about it, and take the OJ defense, " I didn't do it " "Fuck High School, Pissed on My Diploma"--Kid Rock | ||||
| o&aswallow | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 9:13 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Hey Guv, Heres the low down. 20 years of marriage and yes I have strayed. And no she doesn't know. Have I been looking? Not really, it just kind of happens. Things change in relationships. Bottom line, don't hurt each other if you can avoid it. Use common sense. What they don't know or need to know, cant hurt them. If confronted by the issue with your partner, best advice would be don't lie. That makes it worse. Some would call you scum for cheating (word used for lack of better term), but they are typically people who never ran into the situation you did. It happens, thats reality. Don't do it to spite your partner, just react to the situation by instinct. It will go the way it goes. Chin up, guv, it's all good!   o&aswallow Recognized His Destiny Early. Too Many Hotties, Not Enough Horny Goat Weed It at first you don't succeed, keep on sucking till you do suck seed. - Curly Howard. This message was edited by o&aswallow on 3-12-01 @ 9:26 AM | ||||
| Jon Benet Norton G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. GTA3 Criminal Activity Specialist | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 10:00 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Dec. 00 | If she finds out you are totally screwed. My suggestion is to deny the whole thing. Man not even Johnny Cochoran's "Chewbacca" defense won't get you out of this one.  I need a napskee Check out my other sigs: Visit this Website "The saddest thing in life is wasted talent" -Machiavelli- "Whats a SIG PIC and how do I get one?" Jesus you gotta love utter stupidity. | ||||
| Rookie Stature of an Oompa Loompa! | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 10:32 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Guv, I hope you washed off the body glitter...
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| Guv'nor | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 10:55 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Dec. 00 | Well that was another thing, I couldn't shower until I got home, so I got home having been out all night and went straight in the shower!! She was less than impressed to say the least, but there was no suspicion on her part, since I went out with the lads and she knows what a state I sometimes get in! Sad veiled bride please be happy Handsome groom give her room Loud loutish lover treat her kindly Though she needs you, more than she loves you I know it’s over, still I cling, I don’t know where else I can go It’s so easy to laugh it’s so easy to hate It takes guts to be gentle and kind | ||||
| Kim | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 11:57 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | :::steps up on soapbox::: I read this thread and the first thing that I thought was " You fn bastard...how dare you cheat on your woman...you should be castrated for that." That may seem harsh and I'm sure some of the guys would agree with you; but, what you did was WRONG! When you decide to be in a relationship you decide to be with that ONE person. There is a lot of trust involved and to put it nicely you screwed up. She doesn't deserve such treatment from you and if she finds out from someone else it will emotionally kill her. Now, you may think that not telling is the way to go...but, your conscienous could drive you insane. If you love her like you say you do, I'd tell her. If you respect her and the relationship...you'd at least give her that. I would hope that this relationship that you've built over the past 4 years would be worth salvaging... just my thoughts... And for the record...personally, if my man ever cheated...he'd get a homemade castration  | ||||
| spitfire421 | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:49 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Kim, I prefer the cheese grater method.... You know, I've been with the same person for over 5 years, and yes, thoughts of cheating are always distracting me in my mind....but that's all they are- in my head. Honestly, I don't think I'd stay with someone who's cheated on me...and if I wanted to cheat on him, I would leave him 1st because I really don't love him enough to stay mmonogamous.   | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:01 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Dam Guv, you effin lucky you live on the other side of the ocean. My girl cheated this weekend and sufficed to say I don't have much respect for people who fuck over the signifacant others. Fuck ups occur, I find myself not knowing what to do about my situation. But the fact is you should feel guilty, you did do something wrong, and hopefully she won't find out, for your sake. Or maybe she does know and you'll wake up with blood in your lap, with your peter missing, while she sends it through the trash compacter. I maybe coming off as a deek, but with this just happeneing to me I have very strong feelings towards people who show disrespect for loved ones.  Friend of Pedro Guerrero. Adopted by Calm Your Nut. | ||||
| The Painter 1/2 a bottle of Jack Daniels... it's a cure-all | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:44 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | Nobody misses a slice from the loaf. | ||||
| OPM * chick | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 4:31 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Mar. 01 | I think you should ditch the chick if you're not ready to commit and she brings up marriage. lol yeah, u know I'm anti-marriage + all that, but the main thing is that you don't really love her. Do u really want 2 spend the next 40 years of your life with someone you don't love? | ||||
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