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WNEWs GIRL
i don't have a mule but i have a cock
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The new "third". AmyMohrBuddy

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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 3:52 PM      
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ok everyone who is in or has been in a long distance relation ship, this is out to you

either if its a state apart, or your g/f ot b/f went away to college or whatever it might be
if you see them once a week
or maybe u dont get to see them for a month or two
whatever your circumstances are or were

what do you do to cope with it
i know from experience that its very hard, and as i get closer and closer to my man it gets harder and harder to cope with it

i need a lil advice to get through the week without my baby

WHATEVER BEN

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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 3:58 PM      
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A week is nothing.

Anything longer than 3 months is hard, but not impossible.

However, I don't recommend it.
darthziggy
Isles fan for life
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:00 PM      
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i'm in the same boat amy, as you probably know by now.
i just sit and sulk and think of what the fuck i'm doing and how i can possibly make it better, if i can at all. i'm really not sure.
if anyone else has advice, i'll take some too. that or a shot of something harsh ;)


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My unofficial adopted newbie: devil's a-hole, when he decides to post that is
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WyzeGuy
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:01 PM      
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Registered: Oct. 00
Phone calls are important, as are e-mails and even instant messages. Don't discount snail mail, either. Send him a pair of your panties, or perhaps an audio tape you've made for him. If you have a camcorder, videos are more gooder.

Set aside a specific time/minute every day or night (or even day & night) to think of one another. When next you speak, share what you were thinking.

Long distance relationships can be hard, but absence does sometimes make the heart grow fonder. Keep in touch, but also allow him to miss you a little bit. It'll make your time together all the more special.

Also, do you drive? Does he? Assuming he's not on the other side of the Country, any reason you two can't meet in the middle every once in a while?

Other than that, just be real and honest with eachother and don't let fights go unresolved. Now more than ever, communication is key.

Good luck!

Roger
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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:02 PM      
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Write a lot of letters to him, even if you don't send them all and they all say the same shit. It keeps you feeling very connected.


"One girl, I drove through three states wearing her head as a hat." ~ Garland 'The Marietta Mangler' Greene
Buttmunch
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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:20 PM      
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Move to Brazil.

Sloatsburgh
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:21 PM      
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You mope in your dorm room all semester until on of you hall/room mates grabs you and makes you go to a party. At the party, you meet an amazing guy who is so much better and nicer than your b/f g/f and you end up banging. You feel guilty, break up, then you finally move on with life and start living for the future and great unknown instead of letting yourself be teathered to the past.

Sorry Aim, you might have to suffer a break up here. You're still toooooo young. Enjoy college, don't curse it.

AIM - Sloatsburgh







220, 221, whatever it takes.
darthziggy
Isles fan for life
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:22 PM      
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hey mr. munch, any advice for me?


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Buttmunch
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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:27 PM      
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darthziggy-

Move in with your Father.

darthziggy
Isles fan for life
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:31 PM      
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bm, that's fucking scary, since i've been staying w/ him this whole week. but i don't think that's the answer, since that brings up a whole slew of problems that are toooooooo much to bring up in this particular thread. suffice to say papazig's not the greatest guy in the world.


darthziggy@opieanthony.com
My unofficial adopted newbie: devil's a-hole, when he decides to post that is
LET'S GO ISLANDERS
WNEWs GIRL
i don't have a mule but i have a cock
Intercontinental Intergender Thumb Wrestling Champion
CUNT ROCKETTE
The new "third". AmyMohrBuddy

One line in my sig is absolutely fucking disgusting, see if you can find it.
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:31 PM      
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Registered: Aug. 00
quote:

A week is nothing.
Anything longer than 3 months is hard, but not impossible.

ok listen, i didnt post this to get that from people
i understand that people have it worse than me, dont make it look like ITS NOTHING and dont make it look like i dont understand how people have it worse than me
quote:

Phone calls are important, as are e-mails and even instant messages. Don't discount snail mail, either.

yeah we talk on the phone a lot and IM as well, i never thought about letters
but college is coming up and we will have less time to even talk
quote:

Also, do you drive? Does he? any reason you two can't meet in the middle every once in a while?

he drives i dont, there is no time to even see eachother any time but one day a week
money is a problem as well
quote:

Move to Brazil.

i wish

WHATEVER BEN

-----------------------------------------------------------------

I'M ON THE ISLAND OF MISFIT TOYS!
Famous Giant Hot Dog Molester
"The best lessons in life are also the most painful"
I love Danilo!
Black as Snow
Dont hate me because I'm different...
Hate me because I like to piss people like you off
WNEWs GIRL
i don't have a mule but i have a cock
Intercontinental Intergender Thumb Wrestling Champion
CUNT ROCKETTE
The new "third". AmyMohrBuddy

One line in my sig is absolutely fucking disgusting, see if you can find it.
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:31 PM      
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quote:

i sound f-ing pathetic. oh wait, that's amy (obscure private reference, no one else should get that except the third person there)

DONT MAKE ME COME UP THERE
I AM VOS DAMMIT

ziggy my advice...try to move on, i know its hard but thats the only way u can cope with it...if you lets this go on, your going to wind up very very miserable

you'll learn some day

WHATEVER BEN

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I'M ON THE ISLAND OF MISFIT TOYS!
Famous Giant Hot Dog Molester
"The best lessons in life are also the most painful"
I love Danilo!
Black as Snow
Dont hate me because I'm different...
Hate me because I like to piss people like you off
Buttmunch
USA
Autoban


Head Slap... Swim Move...
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:37 PM      
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Well then, you should move to Brazil too.

darthziggy
Isles fan for life
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:40 PM      
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lmao bm, thanks for the advice. unfortunately i have college in the fall, so i don't think that'd work, but it might be a good vacation spot to get the fuck away from bullshit and papazig for a while.


darthziggy@opieanthony.com
I'm off to Franklin Pierce College in September. Go Ravens!
LET'S GO ISLANDERS
Lent
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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:40 PM      
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I don't want to sound like a pessmist but brace for the worst and hope for the best.


My last relationship in 1998 just faded. I met a girl from Montana in Atlanta for a convention. We really hit it off. Just when it was about to go somewhere, we both had to go home. She said she would "write" to me but she never did. I called her in Montana only once. That was it. No goodbyes or anything like that.

Be very fortunate that you are even IN a relationship. I compare it to the economy. It's hard to find not only something that's stable, but something at all.

...rambling over. :)

,
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darthziggy
Isles fan for life
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:47 PM      
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well, actually i'm not in a "relationship" as it may be defined (put in so she doesn't get too mad at me). i'm just a stupid confused teen who needs to learn a LOT about the world, preferably soon.


darthziggy@opieanthony.com
I'm off to Franklin Pierce College in September. Go Ravens!
LET'S GO ISLANDERS
Buttmunch
USA
Autoban


Head Slap... Swim Move...
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:51 PM      
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Registered: Oct. 00
quote:

i'm just a stupid confused teen who needs to learn a LOT about the world, preferably soon.


Simple answer: Hookers

darthziggy
Isles fan for life
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 4:54 PM      
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haha, yeah bm, that might work. i sound f-ing pathetic. oh wait, that's amy (obscure private reference, no one else should get that except the third person there)


darthziggy@opieanthony.com
I'm off to Franklin Pierce College in September. Go Ravens!
LET'S GO ISLANDERS
Fez
The sky is blue
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 5:15 PM      
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Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but did AFDude just post???

Jesus, whats next, TFEC???

oooo wait.



I'm still saved....

Tune in next week for Gooch's creative works on my status!
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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 5:39 PM      
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BM you should write your own advice column;)




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Sean Cold 3:16
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 6:08 PM      
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shit, there is free advice being given out?

What can you do when you hate someone you thought was a friend?

I am having a hard time figuring this one out.

And Thats The Bottom Line.....


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darthziggy
Isles fan for life
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 6:18 PM      
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that one's f-ed up sean. i'd suggest just beating the shit outta them... or just ignoring them.


darthziggy@opieanthony.com
I'm off to Franklin Pierce College in September. Go Ravens!
LET'S GO ISLANDERS
Faceman
...And now the battle between us and them has begun.

JYD-4-LIFE.

posted on 07-16-2001 @ 6:22 PM      
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quote:

What can you do when you hate someone you thought was a friend?



my advice, keep your friends close and your enemies even closer:)




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Sean Cold 3:16
posted on 07-16-2001 @ 6:27 PM      
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what if this person spits when he talks, there seems to be a mono scare around here these days.

From what i hear, a whore is spreading it like wild fire.

I hope wage is ok, he is a cool cat from what i hear as well.

And Thats The Bottom Line.....


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Make you take the pistol to your face
And place the clip and cock it back
And let it go untill your brains
are rippin' out your skull so bad
And sew you back and be a waste of stitches




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posted on 07-16-2001 @ 6:31 PM      
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quote:

I hope wage is ok, he is a cool cat from what i hear as well.

Yes wage is a cool guy to hang with.

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