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Brokenjaw
Always will bow down to the power of the Faceman!!!!
posted on 08-27-2001 @ 9:18 PM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Nov. 00
Cats In The Cradle

By: Harry Chapin



A child arrived just the other day,
came to the world in the usual way,
But there were planes to catch
and bills to pay, he learned to walk while I was away
He was talking before I knew it and as he grew
he said I'm going to be like you Dad,
you know I'm going to be like you.

And the cat's in the cradle,
and the silver spoon, Little Boy Blue,
and the Man in the Moon,
When you coming home son, I don't know when
We'll get together then, you know we'll have a good time then.

My son turned 10 just the other day,
Said thanks for the ball now c'mon let's play
Will you teach me to throw, I said not today,
I've got a lot to do, he said that's ok
And he walked away and he smiled and he said
You know I'm going to be like you, Dad,
you know I'm going to be like you.

And the cat's in the cradle,
and the silver spoon, Little Boy Blue,
and the Man in the Moon,
When you coming home son, I don't know when
We'll get together then, you know we'll have a good time then.

He came from college just the other day,
so much like a man I just had to say,
I'm proud of you, won't you sit for a while
He shook his head and said with a smile,
What I'm feeling like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys
See you later can I have them please.

And the cat's in the cradle,
and the silver spoon, Little Boy Blue,
and the Man in the Moon,
When you coming home son, I don't know when
We'll get together then, you know we'll have a good time then.

I've long since retired and my son's moved away
I called him up just the other day
I'd like to see you, if you don't mind
He said I'd love to Dad, if I could find the time
You see my new job's a hassle and the kids have the flu
But it's sure nice talking you Dad, it's been real nice talking to you.
And as I hung up the phone it occured to me
He'd grown up just like me, my boy was just like me.

And the cat's in the cradle,
and the silver spoon, Little Boy Blue,
and the Man in the Moon,
When you coming home son, I don't know when
We'll get together then, you know we'll have a good time then.

And the cat's in the cradle,
and the silver spoon, Little Boy Blue,
and the Man in the Moon,
When you coming home son, I don't know when
We'll get together then, you know we'll have a good time then.



FUCK YOU TEQUILA

Newbies No mas once again. If you are interested in being adopted AIM. OAbrokenjaw or e-mail Ovaherenow@aol.com
HLJC 4 LIFE



Brokenjaw
Always will bow down to the power of the Faceman!!!!
posted on 08-27-2001 @ 9:35 PM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Nov. 00
ok just one more


The Night I Called The Old Man Out




The dining room fell silent
I can't believe what I just said
I just told my dad he's full of it
And I watched his face turn red
And I should've said, "I'm sorry"
But I matched him shout for shout
I can still hear that screen door slammin'
The night I called him out

He said, "Son it's gonna hurt me more than it hurts you"
But somehow I couldn't help but have my doubts
'Cause I'd seen my own dear brothers crawl back in the house
Each time they called the old man out

Fist to fist and eye to eye
Standin' toe to toe
He would've let me walk away
But I just would not let it go
Years of my frustration
Had let me to this night
Now he'll pay for all the times that he's been right

He said, "Son it's gonna hurt me more than it hurts you"
But somehow I couldn't help but have my doubts
'Cause I'd seen my own dear brothers crawl back in the house
Each time they called the old man out

It was over in a minute
That's when I realized
The blood came from my mouth and nose
But the tears came from his eyes
And in memory of that fateful night
I know the greatest pain was his
And I just pray some day I'm half the man he is

He said, "Son it's gonna hurt me more than it hurts you"
But somehow I couldn't help but have my doubts
'Cause I'd seen my own dear brothers crawl back in the house
Each time they called the old man out

Just like my own dear brothers
I crawled back in the house
The night I called the old man out


FUCK YOU TEQUILA

Newbies No mas once again. If you are interested in being adopted AIM. OAbrokenjaw or e-mail Ovaherenow@aol.com
HLJC 4 LIFE



FeelMyFunBags
posted on 08-27-2001 @ 9:43 PM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Jan. 01
Me and mine:
Luka
-Suzanne Vega

My name is Luka
I live on the second floor
I live upstairs from you
Yes I think you've seen me before

If you hear something late at night
Some kind of trouble. some kind of fight
Just don't ask me what it was
Just don't ask me what it was
Just don't ask me what it was

I think it's because I'm clumsy
I try not to talk too loud
Maybe it's because I'm crazy
I try not to act too proud

They only hit until you cry
And after that you don't ask why
You just don't argue anymore
You just don't argue anymore
You just don't argue anymore

Yes I think I'm okay
I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that's what I'll say
And it's not your business anyway
I guess I'd like to be alone
With nothing broken, nothing thrown

Just don't ask me how I am X3




why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not?
why's it so hard to tell you what I want?
why can't you just read my mind?





bluecarpenter
posted on 08-27-2001 @ 9:44 PM      
Hanger-On
Registered: Jun. 01
Dude...
When I was eight or nine, and my father had been out of my life for a few years, that fuckin' Cats in the Cradle song was a killer for me. I cried like an imbecile retard for many moons. It's also responsible for me being a far better father to my own sons. When I find myself putting my kids off for other things, I catch myself, thinking of that song, and find the time.

Sure beats my adidas!



Thanks Jolene...You know why

kindredbabe
posted on 08-27-2001 @ 11:40 PM      
Psychopath
Registered: Aug. 01
quote:

It's also responsible for me being a far better father to my own sons. When I find myself putting my kids off for other things, I catch myself, thinking of that song, and find the time.


and that is what life is about...isn't it??

-----------

Proud graduate of JJ's School of Board Basics and Higher Learning



Thanks to Austin for the sig pict
Sephiroth
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 6:03 AM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Dec. 00
Here's one i think of when it come to dear old dad:

Death Comes Ripping

Turn the lights down low
And bolt the door up
Future is coming
Future rising up
Whoa
Shotgun blast, a demon piece of lead
With both eyes open
I wait up for the kill
Feel the evil
Feel the heat as I blast you open
Death comes ripping
And it's going, death comes ripping
You feel the heat as death comes ripping
Rip your back out
And death comes ripping out
Flesh and blood
Too weak for you
Turning it over
A little too late to penetrate
Death comes ripping
And it's going, death comes ripping
You feel the heat as death comes ripping
Rip your back out
Death comes ripping
And it's going, death comes ripping
You feel the heat as death comes ripping
Rip your back out
Death comes ripping
And I know that death comes ripping out
Whoa, Whoa, Whoa, Whoa
Whoa




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Kim
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 7:09 AM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Jan. 01

Love Of My Life


I love lilacs and avocados
Ukuleles and fireworks
And Woody Allen and walking in the snow
But you've got to know that

You're the love of my life
You are the love of my life
You are the love of my life
You are the love of my life
>From the moment I first saw you
The second that you were born
I knew that you were the love of my life
Quite simply the love of my life

I love Lucy and pumpernickel bread
The Statue Of Liberty and standing ovations
And falling into bed
But get it through your head that

You're the love of my life
You are the love of my life
You are the love of my life
You are the love of my life
>From the moment I first saw you
The second that you were born
I knew that you were the love of my life
Quite simply the love of my life

You an drive me crazy
You can drive me anywhere
Here are the keys
Just do as you please
It may not always be easy

But you're the love of my life
My heart is riding on a runaway train
You are the love of my life
through all the pleasure and pain
>From the moment I first saw you
I knew it right away
I knew that you were the love of my life
Simply the love of my life
You are the love
The great love of my life.








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This message was edited by Kim on 8-28-01 @ 7:13 AM
LunaBabe
Ok, I know this is all a ploy, but, I'll play anyway.

Dylan? BAH! I've heard BETTER!

JYD-4-LIFE
'Shrooomer
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 7:25 AM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Jun. 01
Beautiful Child
(Stevie Nicks)
Fleetwood Mac
Tusk

Beautiful child
Beautiful child
You are a beautiful child
And I am a fool once more

You fell in love when I was only ten
The years disappeared
Much has gone by since then
I bite my lip, can you send me away
You touch
I have no choice
I have to stay
I had to stay

Sleepless child
There is so little time
Your eyes say yes
But you don't say yes
I wish that you were mine

You say it will be harder in the morning
I wait for you to say, just go
Your hands, held mine so few hours
And I'm not a child anymore

I'm not a child anymore
I'm tall enough
To reach for the stars
I'm old enough
To love you from afar
To trusting... yes?
But then women usually are

I'm not a child anymore
No, I'm not a child, oh no
Tall enough to reach for the stars
I will do
As I'm told
Even if I never hold you again
I never hold you again




~ Graduate of the Brokenjaw School for Newbies~

Why do I cringe when I click this "Reply to Topic" button?
Oyster
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 11:28 AM      
Psychopath
Registered: Jul. 00
----*----Everclear ----*----


Father of mine
tell me where have you been?
You know I just closed my eyes
and my whole world disappeared.

Father of mine
take me back to the day
when I was still your golden boy,
Back before you went away.

I remember blue skies,
walking the block.
I loved it when you held me high,
I loved to hear you talk.

You would take me to a movie,
you would take me to the beach,
You would take me to the place inside
that is so hard to reach.

Father of mine
tell me where did you go?
You had the world inside your hand,
and you did not seem to know.

Father of mine,
tell me what do you see,
When you look back at your wasted life
and you don't see me.

I was ten years old,
doing all that I could.
It wasn't easy for me
to be a scared white boy in a black eighbourhood.

Sometimes you would send me a birthday card
with a five dollar bill.
I never understood you then,
and I guess I never will.

Daddy gave me a name,
my dad he gave me a name
then he walked away.
Daddy gave me a name
then he walked away.
My dad me gave me a name.

Father of mine,
tell me where have you been?
I just closed my eyes
and the world disappeared.

Father of mine,
tell me how do you sleep?
With all the children you abandoned
and the wife I saw you beat.

I will never be safe,
I will never be sane,
I will always be weird inside,
I will always be lame.

Now I'm a grown man
with a child of my own.
And I swear that I will never
let her know all the pain I have known.

Then he walked away.
Daddy gave me a name
then he walked away.
My dad he gave me a name
then he walked away.
Daddy gave me a name
then he walked away.
My dad he gave me a name.
Then he walked away.




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"Our love is rice and beans and horses lard"
Black Francis
fuh-q-2
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 1:23 PM      
Psychopath
Registered: Nov. 00
Queensryche

Bridge

You called me up on the phone today
struggling with the right words to say.
Time can change a thing or two.
Time has changed the lives of me and you,
but you know... it could have been different dad.

The word brings back a sweet memory.
I'm sitting on a bluff on a broken tree,
by my side a distinguished man
giving me encouragement, telling me I can,
and you know... you're not there.

You say, "Son, let's forget the past,
I want another chance, gonna make it last."
You're begging me for a brand new start,
trying to mend a bridge that's been blown apart,
but you know... you never built it dad.

So I sit here through the night,
and I write myself to sleep,
and time keeps ticking...

Time has made you finally realize
your loneliness and your guilt inside.
You're reaching for something you never had,
turning around now you're looking back,
and you know... I'm not there.

You say, "Son, let's forget the past.
I want another chance, gonna make it last."
You're begging me for a brand new start,
trying to mend a bridge that's been blown apart,
but you know... you never built it dad.



****graduate of the Brokenjaw School for Newbies****
Jennitalia
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 3:17 PM      
Psychopath
Registered: Sep. 00
Oh Father
Madonna


It's funny that way, you can get used
To the tears and the pain
What a child will believe
You never loved me

Chorus:

You can't hurt me now
I got away from you, I never thought I would
You can't make me cry, you once had the power
I never felt so good about myself

Seems like yesterday
I lay down next to your boots and I prayed
For your anger to end
Oh Father I have sinned

(chorus)

Oh Father you never wanted to live that way
You never wanted to hurt me
Why am I running away
(repeat)

Maybe someday
When I look back I'll be able to say
You didn't mean to be cruel
Somebody hurt you too

(chorus)





spitfire421
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 3:22 PM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Dec. 00
hmm, can't find a good "my-dad-was-a-drunk-and-now-his-brain-is-fried" songs

this one always gets to me though....

Cat Stevens
"FATHER & SON"

Father
It's not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to know.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.

I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy,
To be calm when you've found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot,
Why, think of everything you've got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.

Son
How can I try to explain, when I do he turns away again.
It's always been the same, same old story.
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.

Father
It's not time to make a change,
Just sit down, take it slowly.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to go through.
Find a girl, settle down,
if you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.

Son
All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside,
It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it.
If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them you know not me.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.






Hey I'd like to daze away to a place like no one has known
In a state of mind I could call mine that only I could own
Where I could hum a tune anytime I choose, and then there's no such thing as time
Where I can feel no pain just calm and sane what a place for one to find

Wifenotborn
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 3:30 PM      
Hanger-On
Registered: Jul. 01
To my biological father, a simple Psycho Mark "GO F' YOURSELF" sounder would do!

Kim
posted on 08-28-2001 @ 7:06 PM      
O&A Board Regular
Registered: Jan. 01
Father
I need you now
But you're nowhere to be found
And I don't know which way to turn


You're so far away
Too far to say
Today be strong
Tomorrow will belong
To the ones who'll stand for the

Father
I need advice
Must my heart be cold as ice
Will the people follow me


It's true that since you're gone
Since your royal tomb's been sealed
Another spirit's been revealed
One who challenges our every god
Now there's a greater will
Raining fire from the skies
Even my baby boy has died
Tell me you hear me

Father
I need you now
They say that every knee must bow
But you never taught me how

Standing up against all odds
Could the voice of destiny
Speak through Moses set my people free
Or will we rule and reign forever
Now the slightest chance
Has taken root inside my hands
And I must do as he commands
And send his people

Away...
Take them all
Away...
Father and son are gone
Away...
Everyone's gone
Away...




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