12-02-2003, 10:06 PM
She has a low self esteem couple with a need for attention and a fear of affection. She does not truly want to get raped (i.e. beaten within an inch of her life, inseminated, and given a disease) because she would have done it. Rather, she has set up a series of parameters of rough, painful, and inpersonal sex which she would compare to rape. One of her root issue is that she cannot separate pleasure from pain or feels that she is not worthly of pleasure. She most definitely has some intimacy issue and wants to separate sex and love. I have offered my services, short of any sexual contact. Rape is not about sex, it's about violence and destruction. It's about hurting a person in the most personal way or degrading that person.
Hell, I just don't see why she just doesn't go to a frat party and offer herself up.
Hell, I just don't see why she just doesn't go to a frat party and offer herself up.
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<center>Boy the way Glen Miller played,
songs that made the hit parade,
guys like us we had it made,
those were the days,
and you know where you were then,
girls were girls and men were men,
mister we could use a man like Herbert Hoover again,
didn't need no welfare states
everybody pulled his weight,
gee our old Lasalle ran great,
those were the days!</center>
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<center>Boy the way Glen Miller played,
songs that made the hit parade,
guys like us we had it made,
those were the days,
and you know where you were then,
girls were girls and men were men,
mister we could use a man like Herbert Hoover again,
didn't need no welfare states
everybody pulled his weight,
gee our old Lasalle ran great,
those were the days!</center>