Bad Idea?

[Toronto Hottie]

Originally posted by Sloats
She has a low self esteem couple with a need for attention and a fear of affection. She does not truly want to get raped (i.e. beaten within an inch of her life, inseminated, and given a disease) because she would have done it. Rather, she has set up a series of parameters of rough, painful, and inpersonal sex which she would compare to rape. One of her root issue is that she cannot separate pleasure from pain or feels that she is not worthly of pleasure. She most definitely has some intimacy issue and wants to separate sex and love. I have offered my services, short of any sexual contact. Rape is not about sex, it's about violence and destruction. It's about hurting a person in the most personal way or degrading that person.

Hell, I just don't see why she just doesn't go to a frat party and offer herself up.

Wrong.

Rape is a control issue. And, it's only been within the last hundred years or so, that women don't just get bent over a tree stump and fucked at random.

This is a common enough fantasy for a woman, you can't breed out our natural primative instincts/customs so quickly. How else would she find an entire site for it????? Don't be so fucking naieve already, stuck up prude.

It can be exciting for a woman to feel she has no control, and is going to take it, whether she likes it or not. Does she really want to get hurt? I doubt it. Likely fucked hard, and uncontrollably, but not HURT.

I still say, don't do it Rape. The fantasy, and the reality, are likely FAR APART, and you could get hurt very badly.

I personally think, if this is a fantasy for you, it's one that needs to be done with a boyfriend, someone you trust/love, in a controlled situation, with parameters set out.

Then again, I'm a control freak. I hope you're safe.