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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: It fells like someone kicked me in my balls...... | ||||
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| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:09 PM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00  | My girlfriend broke my heart this weekend. Wewere supposed to meet up at a certain bar after the Union St Patty's day parade. She never meet up with me and didn't answer two calls on her cell. Someone I know said they saw her in another bar being twirled around by some fuck in a kilt. I promptly headed to that bar to find her not there. So what to do??? I went to her apt, only minutes from where we were. I walk into her apt., door unlocked mind you, and walk in on some chick sucking a guy off in a kilt. Luckily it wasn't her, it was one of her whore friends. But then I ask what are you doing here and were is my girlfriend. Realizing the bedroom door is shut I walk over to it. The friend tells me it's not my girlfriend in there but someone else. I gently knock on the door and tell whomever is in to come out. No response. I'm enraged, knowing that it is her behind the door with who knows who. I throw a little shoulder into the door, which opens and reveals a butt naked chick flat on her back. She had obviously braced her body against the door when I hit it. Realizing that my girl was probably fucking this dick. I promptly gathered my clothes that I keep at her place and walked them out to my car. Hearing the door shut behind me, her friend had done it, I start to heat up. Pounding on the door I tell the two guys in there thatif they do not leave trouble will occur. All i get back is "Did you ever get your ass kicked by a guy in a kilt??" I said no. And asked if he ever got his assed kicked while in a kilt?? Pretty funny considering the state of mind i was in. No luck with these two, whichi later find out are Bergen County Firemen, not sure what township. Anyway I leave and get one of my crazy friends to help me out. Mind you, I wasn't going to let them continue what they were doing. Anyway they don't want to come out. So we go back to my car and start to leave, but I will go around the block once first. Sure enough guess who's leaving. I have never seen my girl so drunk. She could barely put a sentence together, and couldn't even look me in the eyes. Since I'm no longer 18 and can't get a way with beating asses anymore. We get these guys on there way. Two fuckin pussies I tell you. Ihave a temper but I wasn't going to get myself locked up if I could help it. I was just waiting for one of them to touch me. But it didn't happen. So they left and my girlfriend won't open the door for me. I think she fealt so guilty she couldn't even look at me. 10 years I've known her and going out for almost 7. Couldn't believe it. I actually thought she was different. I talked to her the next day, she recv'd a semi black eye from standing behind the door when I shouldered it open. She says she fucked up and that all she did was make out with the guy. She swears that she didn't do anything more. My questions for the fellow board members are as follows.....Would you have beatin the snot out of these guys, risking your job and future?? And would there be any way you would take her back...even after this I think I still love her. She gave me a second chance before...Or am I just a nieve tool? I hope a joke isn't made of this. It is quite possibly the worst I've ever fealt. Come on people I'm spilling my guts here. Thanx for your input.  Friend of Pedro Guerrero. Adopted by Calm Your Nut. | ||||
| spitfire421 | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:13 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | GW....as a representative of the entire female gender, I apologize for what happened to you this weekend....I'm very proud of you for handling the situation so maturely, more than even I would have had I been in your place! I wish I had something to light up in your honor, and if it makes you feel any better, I had one of the worst weekends in my life this weekend to....Misery Loves Company   | ||||
| Banana_juice | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:14 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | holy shit man. that sucks. first of all, if she was butt naked when you got the door open, she was probably doing more than making out with the guy, so you got to find out the absolute truth one way or another, even though the absolute truth might be hard to find out.. also, giving her a second chance is a tough decision.have you ever heard any rumors about her cheating on you before.. if this is a first and she was really really drunk, you might want to consider maybe taking some time off and then starting to hang out again, but like you said, you have been with her for 7 years, so it might be hard to just stop everything and then try to start again. dude, that is a tough decision that you have to seriously think about. oh, and the other part about fighting the 2 guys, i can totally understand why you didnt. i have a very very very bad temper when it comes to cheating on me if i was the boyfriend. i would have regretted it, but yeah, i would have probably started throwing punches, just out of sheer anger. proud graduate of Newbie University. Honor Student of Lord Magus's class. E-Mail Me This message was edited by Banana_juice on 3-12-01 @ 1:18 PM | ||||
| MaynardGKrebs | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:17 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | Hey Drunken...I feel for you man. I am going through something VERY similar, but much worse. No, you shouldn't have beat on them cause it wouldnt be worth it. It's not their fault. I'm sure she didn't tell them that she was in a long term relationship with someone. Second, I am toying with the forgiving part. It is a hard thing to do, to forgive. But it's even harder to forget. If she forgave you for something similar, and you still love each other, then you should attempt to forgive her. But keep in mind that forgetting is near impossible. You will always have that image of her naked with that guy. Even if nothing did happen, you will always wonder if it did. So I say give it a try. Worse thing that can happen is that you break up right? Who knows, it may work out. Best of luck to you. Kindest Regards, My Name | ||||
| SNAKEBITE | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:18 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jan. 01 | DGW-- Sorry about the bad weekend. Glad to here about you keeping your cool. At the time I know it's hard but don't blame the dudes, how is anybody to know you girlfriend has somebody. Also from what you posted you've done the same to her, I think you both need to get your priorities in line and try to talk this out. Also her livin friend dosn't seem any help either if shee's bangin the other guy. Good Luck Remember don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things | ||||
| HOSPITALIANO | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:23 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Question #1: Do you believe her about only making out with the guy? Question #2: If she did do something with that guy in the skirt, would you be able to be with her without thinking about what might have happened?  SPAZ may be dead, but Kevin is an Immortal Asshole! E-Mail Me Adopted Newbies: Matchbox20Money, paulie da bus driver and MONGO!!! | ||||
| Sloatsburgh | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:26 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | I second the above post, the guys don't know you, your girlfriend is the one who betrayed you, so if you beat anyone, it should be her. Secondly, you effin young. Forget about her and move on to other people. She has shown the capicity to cheat on you (drunk or not, it's no excuse) so you have to expect that she would do it again. Finally, You're 18. You're not thinking about marraige, are you?  "I use you for good board I'm not your friend" Guided by Dryblood. | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:30 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Spit...nice to here that from a lady. Sorry to here that your weekend was shit too. Was there something in the water this weekend??? Banana J....More and more I think I should have beaten them. I just don't think it would have been fair. Both of the guys were effed up, it would have only taken me 2 swings. Maynard...sorry to here your situation is worse. I feel for yah bro. Snakebite......her friend doesn't live there, she is just a dirty effin pig from Oakland, NJ. And that statement isn't a generalization of all women I assure you. Hosp.....Question 1....I'm not sure. I want to believe her, because this has never happened before. It is hard to believe with her being naked. In time I'm sure I'll be able to determine what she did. Question 2....Not for awhile...As they say "time heals all wounds" I hope it does in my case. Sloats.....I was 18, now I'm 27. Thank you all for the advice and wisdom. You guys and ladies are actually are helping me. Friend of Pedro Guerrero. Adopted by Calm Your Nut. | ||||
| Sloatsburgh | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:46 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Sorry about that, well your still not 30.... I read "No longer under 18" and "I did take into account that I suck at math". "I use you for good board I'm not your friend" Guided by Dryblood. | ||||
| Banana_juice | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:49 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | well, look at it this way. it was probably a good idea that you didnt hit them. you said they were firemen , so they are probably in good with the police. so if you hit them, than you would have gotten into a pretty big mess. proud graduate of Newbie University. Honor Student of Lord Magus's class. E-Mail Me | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 1:53 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | BJ...That's was my first thought...But one of them is married and the other, who my girl was with has a girlfriend. To be honest I'm very suprised I was thinking so clearly....I was truley afraid that I would do serious damage to both tools. One guy was a bloated mess, and the other was 5'10 175 lbs at the most. I shit bigger then him, and knew the fat motherfucker was scared. I think everything will come full circle. That's when I'll get minezzzzzz. Friend of Pedro Guerrero. Adopted by Calm Your Nut. | ||||
| atomic punk | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:00 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jan. 01 | Dude, I feel for you. There is no worse feeling in the world than heartbreak. I agree with Banana Juice, you both probably need some time away from each other. A week, a month, 6 months, whatever. From what you said, it sounds like you both could use the time for reflection. When you start hanging out again, hopefully there will still be something there. You yourself said time heals all wounds. Or one or both of you may decide it's time to move on. There are no easy answers right now, with everything going through your head. Whatever happens, keep your head up. It's NOT the end of the world. I am a victim of the science age, a child of the storm | ||||
| AndyKoom | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:06 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Feb. 01 | "Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. Three times is enemy action." -Goldfinger | ||||
| Kim | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:17 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | GW... I'm with Spitfire on this one...she was wrong for what she did. I can't believe that "nothing" went on... Seems to me that she is ashamed of what she did; otherwise she would have told you right then and there what happened. You said that "you think" you still love her. You both need to sit down and have a "no holds barred" conversation...whatever is on your mind needs to be talked about. When things like this happen it makes you re-evaulate why you're in the relationship at all... stay strong and make sure you tell her how you feel! | ||||
| Banana_juice | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:19 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | yes drunken, it all does come full circle. just wait it out and you will get yours. proud graduate of Newbie University. Honor Student of Lord Magus's class. E-Mail Me | ||||
| Ronreddog | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:22 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Damn, GW! First, thanks for sharing that with the board. I have tooled on you in the FUck You thread, and you seem like good people. Second, I commend you for showing your strength and not getting physical with these guys. I am not sure I would have been able to handle that myself, but, congrats! Finally, I hope that either you work things out with your girl, or, move on. That is some fucked up shit you went through this weekend. If you want to talk, IM me. I'll listen!   GRRRRRR! E-Mail Me | ||||
USA Autoban Head Slap... Swim Move... | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 2:41 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Oct. 00 | DGW, I've been there. There is no worse feeling in the world. You feel like everything that should matter no longer does. My advice, to help you get through this, is to evaluate where the two of you have been, emotionally, in the recent past. If you were on sound footing, relationship-wise, then I tend to think that this is not the woman for you. She has the cheating "gene" in her and you will never be able to leave her alone without wondering what she's up to. If you haven't been on the best of terms recently, then maybe you should look at the causes for any problems that you two have encountered in your relationship. Think long and hard about what can and cannot be fixed. If you honestly believe you can fix the root problems, then you may be able to overcome this cheating episode. After all, cheating, unless a person is an outright scum-bag, is usually a manifestation of dissatisfaction "at home", or in your case with your significant other. Hey, you have to be the judge of what is really going on in your relationship, but get past the ACT itself, and think about all the other contributing factors. I'm not blaming you or her mind you. And I think you acted wisely by keeping your cool. But, I think you need to step back, look at the big picture and make some tough decisions. I know most guys hate to hear it, but professional relationship therapy might help, if you feel the relationship is worth saving. You have my sympathies.  Mentor to Snakebite (Graduate) | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 3:30 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | To everyone....You're good peeps and I really appreciate your thoughts. I think it will be something I have to look at from afar. Let my head clear and then make a decision. The fact is I know I love here but I don't know if I will ever forget. That, I don't think I could live with. Later and thanx! Friend of Pedro Guerrero. Adopted by Calm Your Nut. | ||||
| Banana_juice | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 4:08 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | no problem dgw. keep us posted on here when you get it all figured out. proud graduate of Newbie University. Honor Student of Lord Magus's class. E-Mail Me | ||||
| Rookie Stature of an Oompa Loompa! | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 4:17 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | I know I'm a little late with this, but I think if it was me, I would not be able to forget. No matter what were to happen in the future, no matter how much effort is put into working it out, it would always be there, nagging me like a thorn in my side. Can you ever trust her again? Will you spend your life wondering where she is or who she is with? Life is too short for that and you probably deserve better. Stress sucks, it will kill you at a young age if you let it. And this situation would cause me TONS of stress. I think I would break up with her and move on with my life if I were in your situation. I'm not saying you should definitely do that, just offering my opinion. Good luck, dude.
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| OPM * chick | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 4:18 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Mar. 01 | OMG that sucks! That chick doesn't deserve a guy like you. You can do better. Cheating is the lowest thing a person can do, I think, and I don't care how drunk she was or if she only made out with the guy, it's still cheating. I think u should dump her *ss (or maybe spend some time apart so she'd get a taste of what it's like 2 not have you around). God reading ur story pissed me off so much! Good thing u didn't beat up those guys though. I hope things work out for you... | ||||
| skitchr4u G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. Xtreme Skiing Assualt Force | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 4:32 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Hey GW, sorry to hear about your shitty weekend. My advice would be almost exactly what everyone else has said...give it a little time then sit down with her and talk it out. Talk about everything that is on your mind, then make the decision when you are cooled off. Keep us in the loop about how things go, we are all family here afterall! adopted by Joey BigArms, then he graduated me, so i am no longer an adoptee!!! Thanks to Joey for all the help!  | ||||
| zootybang | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 4:40 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Oct. 00 | hey,drunken.i was in a very similar situation,minus the kilts.after alot of time and talking and crying,i decided to be the bigger person and give her another chance.i'd like to say that it was for the best,but unfortunately,i never could regain my trust for her,and the memory of what she had done turned into a festering sore in our relationship,eventually causing it's end.i dont know if that was because of what she had done,or my inability to get past it.but i really hope this doesn't happen to you,because if you think it hurts now,try dragging it out for months.good luck and my condolences. God loves you.it's everyone else that thinks you're an asshole. | ||||
| Calm Your Nut | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 5:11 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00 | Gw im sorry man. I think this is what you should do first you should have beat both there asses. I don't think you should take that whorebag back you could get other chicks. Fuck her don't take her back I bet she did more then kiss with the fag in the kilt.  Proud to watch over "Mud Juice and Drunken GW" | ||||
| 1st Sgt. Fil Stand up straight Stomach in Shoulders back SOUND OFF!!! | posted on 03-12-2001 @ 5:18 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | GW, I feel for you my man. I've had it done to me once, twice, oh who the fuck am I kidding, I've had it done to me a few times! Well, Drunken GW, the most I can tell you is that yur gonna have to move on with your life. What she did was inexcusable. If they continue to harass you, use the violence as the last resort and the regrettable necessity. If you do choose to get back together with yourt girl, keep your distance for a long, long while. It's gonna be a long time before you can trust her again. You're back to square one. But if you leave her, don't look back. it's gonna hurt. I know, because I had to leave once. I had no choice. Now as for the guys, I'll kick the crap out of them myself. What makes you look over here? What are you, queer?  | ||||
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