05-01-2003, 07:26 PM
Brain - Sorry....I disagree. Utopia CAN be achieved but first you have to understand what it is that you seek in utopia. You say that no one can ever provide EVERYTHING that you need. To a certain degree I agree with you on this BUTTTTT.....it's up to you to define what your needs are and will that relationship provide you with what you need? Be realistic about it, not fantasy.
Do you NEED to fuck Halle Barry's sister? Or is it on your fantasy list? What would happen to your relationship if you didn't fuck her sister? Would that harm your relationship in anyway? if you say no, then you can classify it as fantasy. It's nice to have but not necessary for the relationship to last.
I have a friend who has a sweetheart of a wife. The woman is a saint with a body to die for and from what I understand, she knows how to use it. She cooks, she cleans, she pampers him head to toe. But the fucker still bangs other girls on the side. I asked him about why. His answer? The grass is always greener on the other side. I attribute this to his need for freedom. He didn't sow his oats. He wants to fuck anything and everything that walks by him. This is a case where what's missing in his relationship is his satisfaction of his ongoing conquest of woman. He had no right marrying that girl and putting her through this. He should have stayed single and banged away.
Do you NEED to fuck Halle Barry's sister? Or is it on your fantasy list? What would happen to your relationship if you didn't fuck her sister? Would that harm your relationship in anyway? if you say no, then you can classify it as fantasy. It's nice to have but not necessary for the relationship to last.
I have a friend who has a sweetheart of a wife. The woman is a saint with a body to die for and from what I understand, she knows how to use it. She cooks, she cleans, she pampers him head to toe. But the fucker still bangs other girls on the side. I asked him about why. His answer? The grass is always greener on the other side. I attribute this to his need for freedom. He didn't sow his oats. He wants to fuck anything and everything that walks by him. This is a case where what's missing in his relationship is his satisfaction of his ongoing conquest of woman. He had no right marrying that girl and putting her through this. He should have stayed single and banged away.