Is it ever ok to cheat?

[RapeFantasizer]

I personally have never slept with someone for the \"sole purpose of fucking\". I do not fuck someone i have never met, or someone i have for that matter with no reason at hand other than a raging libido. I think it is very ignorant to assume that just because you may have sex this way that most people do

I never said most people do it, I just said that every single person on the board can't say they haven't done that.

Clearly there is too much going on in your life at that point and if working through it doesn't help how is cheating going to; it's not, it's just going to be an easy out and make you look the part you played, an untrustworthy, scumbag.

Perhaps you didn't read my entire post. I'm not talking about going behind your bf/gf/wife/husband's back and sleeping around. I truly believe that a relationship can reach a level of security where an occasional romp in the sack with someone else wouldn't matter, and could be discussed between the people in the relationship.

There's always some kind of emotion in it. Even if one person denies it. If it's horniness or lust or just letting out the fact you really wanna fuck someone.

To me, an emotion is something in your head and in your heart, horniness doesn't fit there. Actually, neither does lust. Emotion is what separates lust from love.