01-07-2005, 08:32 PM
lying so you can hang out with your buddies is the same as lying so you can fuck someone else? You actually equate that act as equivalent? You've got to be kidding.
I'm not saying "you made your vows when you were 19 and now you are forced to stay together forever because that's what God says." That's bullshit. But if you decide that you need out, then get out. I don't buy the "everything is perfect in our relationship, I just need to bang someone else" theory. It doesn't hold water. There are obviously other issues at play, or you are just a scumbag who doesn't care about your wife. Becuase either she'll find out and it will destroy her. Or she won't find out and you will have been keeping this giant monumental secret from her forever. You'll never be truly honest with your spouse. What the fuck?
That's what divorces are for.
I'm not saying "you made your vows when you were 19 and now you are forced to stay together forever because that's what God says." That's bullshit. But if you decide that you need out, then get out. I don't buy the "everything is perfect in our relationship, I just need to bang someone else" theory. It doesn't hold water. There are obviously other issues at play, or you are just a scumbag who doesn't care about your wife. Becuase either she'll find out and it will destroy her. Or she won't find out and you will have been keeping this giant monumental secret from her forever. You'll never be truly honest with your spouse. What the fuck?
That's what divorces are for.