Marriage. bah!

[PollyannaFlower46]

I suppose I want to have the ceremony once just to be beautiful and get all dressed up and have the whole thing..u know..the fairy tale thing. I mean it would be nice. BUT I agree..you don't have to be married to spend your whole life together. I guess if you love someone and you trust them, then words should be enough..I mean words between each other.

I want the pretty dress and reception too....me wanting to get married has nothing to do with god either, since I'm a nonbeliever. I guess for me getting married would mean more than words...it would mean that we wanted everyone to know that we love eachother enough to spend the rest of our lives together. No pledge of committment says that as much as a marriage certificate.