Is it ever ok to cheat?

[Ninny]

Perhaps you didn't read my entire post. I'm not talking about going behind your bf/gf/wife/husband's back and sleeping around. I truly believe that a relationship can reach a level of security where an occasional romp in the sack with someone else wouldn't matter, and could be discussed between the people in the relationship.

You're right i did not read your entire post, perhaps i should have. I just don't understand why(if so secure) in your relationship you would come across the want to sleep with someone else, even if it is for physical thrill or whatnot. Maybe it all has to do with how comfortable you are in your relationship but it still sounds kind of crazy to me and i for one would never want to have that.