Female Infidelity

[Mad Dog]

Since you have a unique perspective on this subject I have a couple of questions. Were you the one to cheat first or did it happen to you first. Second what was one of the worst consequences of being the cheater or being the victim of a cheater? Also what was the tipping point that pushed you over the edge and say," ya I think so"?

I was cheated on first. In no way am I saying that that validates my cheating.

I think the worst consequence of my cheating was the trust issues that came about later, and the eventual breakdown of the relationship I was in.

The worst consequence of being cheated on is that it pushed me to not care for awhile that I was afterwords unfaithful to my lover and that I was ultimately uncaring for lying to people about it...

The whole experience is horrible and I don't ever want to be that person again.

Whether or not it is cheating, pretty much everyone has something that they wish they could change, have a second chance at, or deeply regret. All you can do is learn, move on, and teach your children not to do the things you've done. Don't beat yourself up too much. I believe most people can learn, change, and grow. And it sounds like you have.