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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: Dating 101 | ||||
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| Arthur Dent | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 11:24 AM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00  | Great! Now, on to Step 2: Conversation and Arranging a First Date Alright, you read the signals, introduced yourself, etc. Very good. But, know you need to start a conversation, keep it going and interesting, and somewhere along the way ask her to go out on an actual date and make all the arrrangements. What do you do? | ||||
| av8er OA.com's taint with wings. | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 11:34 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | let's see...I usually say something like "nice shoes. Wanna fuck?" 2 POSITIONS OPEN FOR ADOPTEES [ AIM ] [ ICQ ] [ E-Mail ] "Ahahahhahaha...How sweet...Fresh meat!" - Robert Englund "Could you bend me over the console & say that?" - Jim Norton | ||||
| heyladiladi STONER ON THE SNUKA CBH ROTISSERIE | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 1:00 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: May. 01 | quote:I think I've only been out once with someone who just walked up and asked. Usually it is someone you know, or see around, and you get to work up to it. Something like "So you wanna go out sometime?" If she looks excited about it, good. If she has to think about it, bad. :) Can I ask a question too - How do guys feel about a girl asking them out? Should she have a definite destination in mind... Like: Hey I have Devils tickets wanna go? Or is it enough if she just wants to see you more?  | ||||
| Arthur Dent | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 1:36 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00 | Ladi, I wish a girl would make it that simple. I'd be so flattered I'd HAVE to say yes. And on the topic, I find if she's interested, she'll work with you to keep the conversation going and interesting. Too many uncomfortable silences usually means she's not interested and hoping you'll get the hint and leave. | ||||
| 2 tired 2 give N F One of the Teen Tomatoe Boys is Retarted... Guess which one I am!!! | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 2:05 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jan. 01 | I think this part depends on how well you know the person in my opinion, If she's a total stranger then you have to get to know her and get her to know you so then it wouldn't seem like "Hey I lost my teddy bear can I sleep with you tonight?" Usually I just give her my phone number or screen name before we part and I tell her to contact me or something. IF you know the girl/guy(I'll get to that later) then it isn't as complicated. You can just ask them to go somewhere and if things don't look like they're working out you can say it was a "friendly" outing. He/she might know better but they probably won't say anything at the risk of making the relationship uncomfortable or they'll say something because they are interested too. Oh and if a girl wants to ask me out I have no problems with it. I've never been asked directly ususally she manipulates the conversation so that it looks like my idea or a mutual one.  And I find you here, Through your eyes everything's clear, And I fall inside your arms, but I'm alone for now, alone for now... | ||||
| av8er OA.com's taint with wings. | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 2:26 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: I don't mind this at all, being that alot of girls seem unapproachable. I don't even need them to ask me out, just something to let us guys know they're open to conversation. ugh...dating sucks! 2 POSITIONS OPEN FOR ADOPTEES [ AIM ] [ ICQ ] [ E-Mail ] "Ahahahhahaha...How sweet...Fresh meat!" - Robert Englund "Could you bend me over the console & say that?" - Jim Norton | ||||
| fbdlingfrg wow, my name looks odd without 5 lines of type below it in bold and purple and red G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. Red Wings Captain Cecil JBA~Remove the Pick & Click NOW! | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 2:35 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | conversation is easy, once you get past starting it(cant help...i suck at starting).but once you start talking, just bring up stuff you like that she might like.anything that might be a mutual intrest, try.now if you know the girl already and want to go out with her, just start talking to her more, whenever you have the chance to hang out with her(without looking like a stalker), go.also, gradually start makeing some jokes about wanting to go out.keep it humorous, so she might start thinking about it.it worked for me once... and as for the girl asking me out, it is a bit odd for just some random girl to talk to me, but a girl i know isnt odd at all, in fact it makes it much easier.and who really needs a destination?with most guys, the simple fact of a girl wanting to go out is ennough  i may be a little catholic boy, but i'm still HLJC 4 LIFE! GO BIG BLUE! | ||||
| Cranky Ass | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 2:54 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Feb. 01 | Getting the conversation started is the most important move. It can be anything, it doesn't really matter, as long as you get it going. Once you have made the initial move, it gets easier from there. Humor is the best way to ease the tension. If you can make a girl laugh she is puddy in your hands. More often than not, she'll be the one persuing you if you show a strong enough pimp hand. Thats simply something that can't be taught but rather learned from experience. The worst thing you can do is fear rejection. Fear is your enemy. In reality shes is just as nervous as you are to make the first initial contact. If you approach enough girls, eventually that tension wears off and you'll find it much easier to make the move. Practice, practice, practice. ________________  Read My Column, Kickin Ass With FoundryMusicAntD on FoundryMusic.com , the most difficult site to navigate on the net and tune into my midnite show on RonFez.net Radio God Bless America!!! Support Firemen, Red Cross, United Way, Salvation Army, Save The Children and everyone else helping restore peace. | ||||
| av8er OA.com's taint with wings. | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 2:56 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: LOL...That just reminded me of Johnny Dangerously. 2 POSITIONS OPEN FOR ADOPTEES [ AIM ] [ ICQ ] [ E-Mail ] "Ahahahhahaha...How sweet...Fresh meat!" - Robert Englund "Could you bend me over the console & say that?" - Jim Norton | ||||
| Psycho Bitch | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 4:43 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jul. 01 | quote: I'll second that, lol Just put yourself out there and have fun...be yourself and just let it happen. If you meet someone you like try and spend as much time with them as possible and see where it leads. Even if he/she turns out not to be the love of your life you'll at least end up with a new friend. :) The hardest part is asking, but just remember, if you don't ask you'll never know. Ask yourself, would you rather play it safe and not know or just ask and live with the fact that they don't feel the same? Hopefully, if the guy/girl knows you're interested, they'll make asking easier on you. If not then just try not to push too hard and let them figure out what they want on their own.If they like you they will come to you, just give it time. Easier said than done, I know....try and have patience. It won't always work and maybe you'll freak out and worry yourself unneccessarily, but just try and remember patience :) lol  If I seem a little scattered There's an empty space where something used to beat I'm definately shattered Like some stupid piece of china How pathetic of me [ÃAIMÃ ] [ÃE-MailÃ] | ||||
| Sean Cold 3:16 | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 5:05 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | Just be blunt. I have never had any trouble with women as long as I speak up and lay it on the line. It's when I try and be something I am not, like kind, considerate and caring that fucks me all up. And no, I don't mean coming out and sayin "you wanna fuck" though that suprisingly is one of the better icebreakers. It is just simply being comfortable with yourself no matter what. You can not expect a woman to be comfortable around you when you are trying to crawl out of your own skin. Cinfidence in your ability to speak is a massive turn on to most women. Just put your fuckin chin up and speak your mind and if she is intrested, you will know very soon. If not, consider it her loss and move on, there is probally someone better suited for you right around the corner. and even though I answer this thread seriously this time, I still hate Dent.  | ||||
| kindredbabe | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 5:31 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 01 | quote: and quote: Am I the only one to see the connection here? ;)  | ||||
| av8er OA.com's taint with wings. | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 5:38 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: See, that's why I love this place. Everyone is always willing to help. I knew it was something Kindred, I just couldn't put my finger on it....thanx:) 2 POSITIONS OPEN FOR ADOPTEES [ AIM ] [ ICQ ] [ E-Mail ] "Ahahahhahaha...How sweet...Fresh meat!" - Robert Englund "Could you bend me over the console & say that?" - Jim Norton | ||||
| Ken'sPen [Sarcasm] Doesn't Live Up To The Hype [/Sarcasm] I should have stayed OVER THERE | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 5:48 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Aug. 01 | I always found the direct approach works best. I've had great success with the lines: "How Much?" and "What do I get for a twenty". This message was edited by Ken'sPen on 10-16-01 @ 6:28 PM | ||||
| av8er OA.com's taint with wings. | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 6:02 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Goddamn Ken you are one funny motherfucker...I'm dying over here!...LMMFAO 2 POSITIONS OPEN FOR ADOPTEES [ AIM ] [ ICQ ] [ E-Mail ] "Ahahahhahaha...How sweet...Fresh meat!" - Robert Englund "Could you bend me over the console & say that?" - Jim Norton | ||||
| kindredbabe | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 6:03 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 01 | quote: Anytime I can help, av8er... ;) | ||||
| IrishAlkey Chucky Official OA.com Homo CUNT ROCKETTE Look who's laughing now, fuckers!!! Is It In Yet? JYD-4-LIFE [Sarcasm]Subzero316 fan since day one!!1!![/Sarcasm] "my mod powers are on temporary hiatus" This status is sponsored by: P®oJë©T M@¥hέm | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 6:13 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Aug. 01 | If there's gonna be an exam at the end of this course, I am already letting you know I'll be sick that day. Talk to her on the phone first, because otherwise she might notice one of your "oversized" facial features...  | ||||
| SweetAngel | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 6:15 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | I agree with the whole glance and smile routine. However, if guys are unwilling to approach a girl who is with friends, that could be a problem. I don't know many girls that go out alone, especially these days. If a girl responds to your glance and smile with glances and smiles of her own, I'd say take the chance and go talk to her. quote: Confidence, NOT EGO is a huge plus, but a guy who appears at least a little nervous is also appealing. As for an opening line, I would suggest something simple. A compliment about her hair or eyes (nothing below the neck) works wonders. But make sure that it's honest. If you can't find something above the neck to comment honestly on, then you're probably shooting for the wrong person for the wrong reasons.  Graduated from the Brokenjaw school for newbies | ||||
| Ken'sPen [Sarcasm] Doesn't Live Up To The Hype [/Sarcasm] I should have stayed OVER THERE | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 6:57 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Aug. 01 | quote: And just suck up those 12.95 per min. charges. | ||||
| av8er OA.com's taint with wings. | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 7:08 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: I usually pick something out of the ordinary to compliment them about. I don't think they wanna hear the ame old ones. If they're wearing an ankle bracelet for instance, I'll tell her I like it. 2 POSITIONS OPEN FOR ADOPTEES [ AIM ] [ ICQ ] [ E-Mail ] "Ahahahhahaha...How sweet...Fresh meat!" - Robert Englund "Could you bend me over the console & say that?" - Jim Norton | ||||
| IrishAlkey Chucky Official OA.com Homo CUNT ROCKETTE Look who's laughing now, fuckers!!! Is It In Yet? JYD-4-LIFE [Sarcasm]Subzero316 fan since day one!!1!![/Sarcasm] "my mod powers are on temporary hiatus" This status is sponsored by: P®oJë©T M@¥hέm | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 7:12 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Aug. 01 | quote: I find when you compliment a woman on her clitoris piercing, she melts. | ||||
| heyladiladi STONER ON THE SNUKA CBH ROTISSERIE | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 7:23 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: May. 01 | quote:Very nice. Have to agree with that... (as long as he has something to say.) | ||||
| Sean Cold 3:16 | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 7:30 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | quote: Sorry, if you do not have somewhat of an ego, all is lost. Everyone acuses someone who is secure in him/her self as being egotistical or full of them selves. That is the way the world works. I am confident in myself and I truely do not care if people like it or not. Like you said, sometimes you are working on the wrong person. I rather be a little vain than need to hunt for someone else's approval. And I have never seen a whimpering ftard score without paying, I.E. Uni, so take from my comments what you will. Good thing I never planned on hitting on you. | ||||
| SweetAngel | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 9:23 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | quote: Having confidence in oneself and being egotistical are two distinct things, separated by a very hazy line. Confidence is great. Being secure in who you are is great. Having a huge ego...eh, not so much. There's also a difference between a little nervousness and being a "whimpering ftard". Nervousness passes, whimpering never ends. That being said, please don't read things into my posts that aren't there. Thank you. :) Graduated from the Brokenjaw school for newbies | ||||
| Sean Cold 3:16 | posted on 10-16-2001 @ 9:34 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | Um, I do believe you are the one reading into my post and , again, you are staing your opion about what I typed, so, your welcome. | ||||
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