The age old question :Can men and women be friends? Ask people and you're sure to get a variety of responses. They range from "Absolutely!" to "Hell no!" and everything in between. The more people tend to think about the question before answering, the more wishy-washy the answer tends to get. "Well, depending on the people involved, I suppose it could be possible for a man and woman to be friends."

Well, I'm here to tell you that the answer is yes. Men and women can be friends. But yes, there are usually some basic ground rules:

1) Just as with any friends, you really need to share common interests.
2) Romantic feelings that are one sided can kill the friendship. Romantic feelings that are returned can turn into marriage.
3) Both people, when in romantic relationships with others, need to be dating secure, non-jealous people.
4) The younger you are the easier it is. You usually don't have as many hang-ups about the opposite sex as you do after going through life for awhile.
5) In most cases, if the friend is an ex they usually can not be a friend. Why keep visiting a car wreck?


Quite often we meet members of the opposite sex to whom we have absolutely no physical attraction to what so ever, yet we bond in other ways and have a lot in common and share a lot of laughs. These people make great friends no matter what sex they are. Why throw away a good thing just because of a person's gender? Friends of the opposite sex are also a great way to meet potential partners. They are also a great way to get to know how their mind works. Men and women think so differently about so many things, so it is great to have an opposite sex friend to learn from and to sometimes translate for you.

Men and women can be friends, just as straight woman can have lesbian friends and just as people of different colors and races can be friends. What it all boils down to is that friendships are special and should be treasured no matter who it is that you share them with.



so what do you guys and gals think? can men and women be just friends with out any alternative motives? you be the judge.

Kill Bill

Now, this looks like a fun movie!

Should we let Jersey Thunder out yet?

Help me decide.

I played this game last night: A word in chosen and you have 30 seconds to come up with a song that has that word in it (and at least 7 other words that surround it). Opposing teams go back and forth until no one else can come up with a song. It's annoying as Hell because now I am noticing songs that have "Where" in it.

The Game: Find a song (type the lyrics) with the word the previous poster left, then leave a word for the next poster:

For Example:

Quote:Velvet

till i leave for spring training!! WOO HOO!!!!
got tickets for the yanks, red sox, pirates, tigers, and reds.
10 games in 8 days. it's gonna rock!!!!

So uhm... Hi :lookatme:

He decided to show up to fix my cable at 8:45 am on New Year's Day. What the fuck is THAT shit all about???

Which means I got precicely 3 hours of sleep beforehand. So I decided to just stay up and go to sleep early last night...


and wouldn't you know it....I COULDNT FALL ASLEEP last night. BAH!


all cause the fuckin cable guy is a dick. :fuckoff:

He decided to show up to fix my cable at 8:45 am on New Year's Day. What the fuck is THAT shit all about???

Which means I got precicely 3 hours of sleep beforehand. So I decided to just stay up and go to sleep early last night...


and wouldn't you know it....I COULDNT FALL ASLEEP last night. BAH!


all cause the fuckin cable guy is a dick. :fuckoff:

do the right thing and lets bring some explosive excitement to the board!!!!

stand up and be heard!!! tell those in power that you want to bring back the glory days!!! tell "the man" you want a mod who is going to stop the inflow of hippy Doors fans!
let the admins know that you want a man of the people to represent you!!